 Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 2:13 pm Post subject: Re: Seeing the One-itis on Wednesday |
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| Omega wrote: | The last time I saw her (end of summer) was at a bar. I walked up to her kissed her on the cheek, (like i normally do- we've been pretty good friends for the past 2 years) told her i was going to get a drink and ill talk to her later. I ignored her the whole time and hit on the two girls she came with. I could feel her looking at me the whole night. It was than time to go, I said goodbye to her friends and than to her. She made some comment to me, I forget what, but i could tell she was upset that I ignored her.
I dont really know where to go from here. Should I stick with ignoring her, or go into some routines and start hitting on her again? Plus there is the obstacle of her b/f. Any advice would be awesome. |
This last two paragraphs is EXACTLY where I am with a "one-itis"-type girl right now. Easily a 9.5 or 10/10. I froze her out yesterday, talking to everyone else and telling jokes etc. to them...and and at the end of the day she gave me a dirty look when she walked out.
Obviously, she wants your attention (just like this girl wants mine), and you don't want her to move on...but there's concern about tipping your hand. I'm not sure where to go from here either...
BUT, I was thinking that I (and I guess you, too) should just handle it as though she was another, not nearly-as-attractive girl who had a crush on you that you were "humoring." For me, that would mean stopping her tomorrow and asking, obliviously "what's with the dirty looks, kid?"
I have no idea at all what she'd say though. If she says "nothing." You could still pull the cool big-brother thing and say "oh, come on. It's somethin'." And at that point I imagine she couldn't resist giving you a little bit of the truth.
And from there...I'm not sure. Maybe play it by ear and apologize and tell her you thought she wanted to cool it off? Both of us are in a tough spot. |
