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lennon
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 Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 10:54 am Post subject: running into a disheartening recurring theme... |
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when sarging in the field don't seem to have problems consistently the way I do online. However I'm recovering from a car accident so I can''t go out very much right now so I sarge and practice online a lot. At this point, I've got it worked out where I get initial responses probably 75% of the time at least but after that, a second response is about 3%!!! YES I KNOW THE MYSPACE METHOD! I don't use myspace or facebook for that matter, I use actual dating sites more. Any advice? -Lennon  |
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MattJacks
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| can u give us an example of ur messages. it sounds like u havent got enought interest built with her. maybe moving to fast. boring topics (ie things every other guy asks her....). |
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lennon
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| Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 6:28 pm Post subject: EXAMPLES |
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Yeah sure. To open it depends on the girl but what I use doesn't really matter because they usually respond but here are 2 examples:
me:Hey, I'm luring girls to my house using candy. Which do you prefer, snickers or skittles?
hb: lol skittles!
me: lol, good choice. so why in particular do you want to teach 2nd grade?
got no reply. heres another one:
me: are you wearing a wig?
hb: lol you sure know how to charm a woman! haha well I get extensions so they're fake but they're real if that makes any sense? I can't believe that haha most guys tell me my hair looks perfect.
me: lol, I'm not most guys but thats ok, it still looks nice. I'm not tackless, I'm just not into sucking up to girls just because they are attractive (wink)
again, no reply. I probably should have asked the second one a question but I didn't have much to go on and I figured if she responded that was an IOI but she didnt....  |
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atb123
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| ive been told from multiple girls that using acronyms like lol is a really bad move. Sounds weird, but lol comes off quite feminine. i dont know probably not the problem here but just a thought. Also where are you meeting these chicks and how are these messages being sent, on AIM, FB?? |
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Stetson
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| lennon wrote: | | me: lol, I'm not most guys but thats ok, it still looks nice. I'm not tackless, I'm just not into sucking up to girls just because they are attractive (wink) |
Well there you tried to convince the girl for something (Qualifying yourself too much too early), and also mentioned that shes attractive (bad move so early).
| lennon wrote: | | me: lol, good choice. so why in particular do you want to teach 2nd grade? |
Here the girl most likely thinks that you are a weirdo, or shes just too busy. |
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Hobbit
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| Stetson wrote: | | lennon wrote: | | me: lol, I'm not most guys but thats ok, it still looks nice. I'm not tackless, I'm just not into sucking up to girls just because they are attractive (wink) |
Well there you tried to convince the girl for something (Qualifying yourself too much too early), and also mentioned that shes attractive (bad move so early).
| lennon wrote: | | me: lol, good choice. so why in particular do you want to teach 2nd grade? |
Here the girl most likely thinks that you are a weirdo, or shes just too busy. |
| Quote: | | me: lol, good choice. so why in particular do you want to teach 2nd grade? |
I think the problem with this one is its a lame conversation. Your asking questions like an interview on something everyone probably asks her. |
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