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Guess
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 Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 6:48 pm Post subject: Responded to opener, what to do next? |
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HB 9 I discovered on myspace. Ok, I sent her a message that went like this,"So what's it gonna be, Fri. or Sat. night? She resonded with,"Depends, where do you live? age? I sent her a friend request and she added me.
I wanted advice on a good way to respond to this because I'd like to get in this girl's pants. I'm 26 she is 18 so there is a bit of an age difference, but the last girl I was dating was 18 so I don't see the big deal with that.
Help me out guys. |
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 6:58 pm Post subject: |
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| be playful and mysterious... for your name, give her a nickname and for where you live, tell her close enough... |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 6:58 pm Post subject: My reply |
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My Reply: "Since when does age have anything to do with it, but know I'm under 30? I live close enough, and stop trying to change the subject. Fri or Sat?"
Good Luck!
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Advice
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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| there you go pimpin, good response... |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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Well, as long as she REALLY IS 18, then it's cool.
Tell her to guess your age, and if she's right, she'll get a prize. Don't tell her what the prize is.
As for where you live . . . agreed, tell her close enough, and then as was already said, tell her to quit changing the subject and choose Friday or Saturday. |
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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| be playful and mysterious... for your name, give her a nickname and for where you live, tell her close enough... |
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Guess
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| Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:15 pm Post subject: |
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Ok she responded well, and told me she just wanted to make sure I wasn't underage. She said Sat. would be good but left no #.
What should I say next?? Once I get on the date I'm confident, but it's just getting the date over myspace can sometimes be difficult.
Thanks bro's. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Say, "I don't do anything w/o a phone number." |
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 6:14 pm Post subject: LA |
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| L.A. Tripp wrote: | | Say, "I don't do anything w/o a phone number." |
I like LA's response here and it flows nicely with what we advised you to previously say. I am glad that you were able to get her to chose a day.
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Guess
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Ok I did the" I don't do anything w/o a number response" she read it in like 2 minutes and didn't respond. Shit!
Hopefully she is just waiting awhile because everytime I read her messages I wait a a few hours before I respond. If she doesn't respond in a day or so how long should I wait to message her back? She did agree for a date on Sat. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 9:00 pm Post subject: |
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| Just chill man . . . CHILL . . . don't jump on it/her right away. Just wait. Make HER nervous like she is making you nervous, and don't let her KNOW that you're nervous. That won't look good for you. |
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insurgentdeerz
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You are really love-stoned, aren't you?
This is the kinda thing girls look for!
Being weak/pussy-whipped & a pick-up artist do not go together!
You have to be in control
Have options
don't get hung up on one girl!
There are millions of women in the world!
Why do they matter?
You shouldn't focus on just one...
Let yourself never be lonely
You should not be FREAKED out when she doesn't respond to a message w/ in 2 mins,
Maybe her computer is slow. Maybe she has a life... People Do have lives you know, Why should I care if 1 person isn't responding to me?
Don't let her dangle you! |
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Guess
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Yeas I'm in a funk right now, and I need to get some ass. I also live in a small town and it's hard to come by alot of decent girls so you get the idea.
But I realize what your saying and I do need to chill. I'm going to go out sarging tonight and try and get some more #'s.
Any good ideas for small town openers? LOL |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 11:21 pm Post subject: |
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Just the same as big city openers.
Find a girl that's made herself up to look immaculate, walk over, "straighten" her shirt out just briefly, look at her, give her a thumbs up and say "there you go". Walk away.
Or, find something about the group to comment on. Or, about the place. Or, you Mystery's "wanna know why you suck?" opener. |
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