Basically I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a month, we have a good relationship I say. Wetalk an hang out pretty much everyday( I kno that's not good lol).. However recently I think she's lost some respect for me. She usually does anything I ask her to do. For example " take this shirt to the cleaners" pick me up a drink from the store" but latly she hasn't been as urgent or consistent with the things I tell her to do. My question is, how do I regain the respect we had at the start of our relationship? Should I distance myself a little until it comes back?? What do you think? What would you do? Hurry! Lol leave it here dudez

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“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them”

“If you act like she is too important, she’ll treat you like your not important”

She's probably getting pissed that you keep asking her to do things.

These are petty errands that you could do for yourself once in a while, but it sounds like you always ask her to do them.

Do something for her, for once. Show her you appreciate her.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

Sorry to disillusion you, but having respect is not at all the same as maintaining a lap dog who will fetch things for you at the snap of your fingers. To truly earn another's respect, you must be a strong, dignified person yourself. You must have profound confidence in the content and quality of your character, and so you have no need to seek validation of a fragile ego by testing the limits of another's compliance. And you must treat the *other* person with respect. Where is the respect for this girl?

You've probably read some PUA materials that discuss compliance tests as a way to see if a girl is interested and a way to get her to invest in you. And that's all fine for the initial phases of meeting a girl and beginning to build a rapport. It seems, though, that you've misapplied the concept -- that you're under the false impression you need to keep testing her willingness to supplicate. But when you're in a relationship -- a mature relationship, at least -- you don't measure success according to how quickly your girl will sprint to and from the fridge to nab you a beer.

So my advice to you would be to stop worrying about how to get this girl to fall back in line, and start thinking instead of not only why it is that you feel the need to run her around but also how you can develop your own inner strength.

Good luck.

Peace,
Ciornia

Thanks good advice... She recently lost her job so she's been acting a little irratated you know? Im wondering what role should i take through this situation.

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“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them”

“If you act like she is too important, she’ll treat you like your not important”

My pleasure

Ah, too bad she lost her job. But when one door closes, another opens. And if you remain true to yourself, the second is usually better than the first. Try to be supportive of her as she moves forward to a new chapter. Treating her as your personal valet will only make her feel worse, and that's not good for either of you. Do something nice for her -- cook her dinner maybe -- to show that you care for her regardless of whether she has that former job.