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theory1
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 Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:10 am Post subject: Push Pull Theory |
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I met a HB9 a month ago, and her friend HB7 was all over me, but obviously I wanted HB9. Well they both joined our friends last weekend and I started DHVing HB9, but HB7 was a little attention hungry, so I started to pull her back and push HB9 away. Push her away by only not talking to the target HB9 and paying attention to HB7. Women are so intuitive that see you are not into them as much, so it becomes like a Cat String Theory of having something you can’t have.
I actually continued this sort of strategy over the phone. I called HB9 a couple days later (notice I did not care about time bridging, it’s a mystery thing, so its good, but it doesn't always work) and we talked for two hours, and not by choice! This time she did not have a jealous friend in the mix. I called her because I got my IOIs now! When I first met HB9 a month ago, she walked out on my set!!! She was hard core! She needed to be proven that I was no threat and that I would not just kiss her ass (pull) like every other guy. Thus, I needed to push and show some value in myself. Anyway, during the 2 hour conversation she told me lots of personal stuff only because she felt comfortable. I told her personal stuff too. So like mystery says, when you call a girl you are mainly providing comfort. But in doing so I was doing nothing but pulling! At the end of the conversation she agreed to go shopping with me, but told me that I had to go to Victoria’s Secret with her and she laughed! This was an IOI and a flirt, but I simply shrugged it off (and it was hard, literally!) and replied “Good, I was going there anyway”. She started in on me, “for what”. I would not tell her. I told her it was for personal reasons and that its just a thing that I have. She said, “you are so open, and know you won’t tell me this?” I stood my ground and said yes even though I did not want to. I just wanted to pull her toward me. But because I don’t know her that well yet I can’t. I must pull and push until I am fucking her and in a relationship. I held my position and told her that I don’t know her that well yet. She said well I am going to find out what it is that you are going to buy anyway. I said “that is fine because I will know you just that much better”. How could she argue, so she said “You are driving me crazy and I am going to be thinking about it until we go!” She added, “I bet it is something for a girl you’re dating.” She is already assuming it, great! She now thinks I am preselected by women simply because of that.
Little things like that in Push/Pull Theory make a huge difference. Funny thing is I have not flirted too much and she thinks that I am not in it for sex, which separates me from the average guy after a HB9. At this point I can start to escalate the kino, flirting, and sex. Even now, she might even think that I am gay or a cross dresser? Obviously that is not the case, but she did mention it and I did not tell her yes or no, just said "who cares what you think, and I am completely secure with my sexuality" then I laughed at her. Leaving them hanging is so powerful, so keep this in mind when you are trying to call or even approaching. Its just like a neg, and you gave me advice on that, so just keep up that attitude. You are doing well. Too bad I am not in San Fran, I would love to hang. If you are ever in Salt Lake, let me know. |
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rawlines
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hey man, what ended up happeneing with that chick, you get a shag?
fill me in... |
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totti_07
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I like this,, very good 
Totti;;  |
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nicegilbz
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| so iv been push-pulling this girl like crazy. and the result is she has now said 'i just dont get u'. did i overdo it? NV |
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Smile's
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| Posted: Wed Sep 10, 2008 6:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | so iv been push-pulling this girl like crazy. and the result is she has now said 'i just dont get u'. did i overdo it? NV |
No man Unless your in a relationship with a girl and she says that, I almost look at it as a good thing when a girl says that. That means you have her on her toes not know what is coming next. |
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mrfickle
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| Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 5:07 pm Post subject: hmm |
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| I went into victoria's secret with her(not your girl of course), without putting up a fight whatsoever gee i fucked that one up. |
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