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PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2015 3:51 am 
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Hi there,

So I had a wild f**fest with this chick last week, Wednesday, after a 15 month dry spell. Didn't bother to post it to the lay reports section, b/c I don't think anyone could really learn from it. The sex was very awkward, mechanical with no emotional connection or bonding.

She basically is a slut, ,most likely using me as rebound, only 22 with 20 sexual partners (over the past two years) and only one boyfriend in that period.

Well the next morning, after kicking me out the previous night after sexing, she texts me telling me she wants to end it, giving bullshit excuses, but one of the texts is " I dont think we necessarily get along in the bedroom", hence the reason for this thread.

Dont like to put a label to anything, but I guess we are just FF (I still think?)

I originally wanted to make her more than a FF (my gf) so I read this entire thread relationships/topic184592.html (maria gave excellent advice btw)
It is not exactly the same situation, but very similar, and a lot of it resonates with me.


I think I am in a worse off postion than christmas wish, in the sense, that I am inexperienced, and christmas wish seems like a real experienced PUA.


I am quite inexperienced at sex, and am extremely eager to improve: are there any books videos you would recommend? I do not currently have a reliable steady sex partner.


For some reason I can come easily when jerking off/ seeing an escort, but never with a real girl! Even when she gave me head I never came!

and no stupid quips about seeing a prostitute (quit that no more) - not happening!

Their really should be a "Sex forum" where one can discuss various sexual positions.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2015 8:52 pm 
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Great thanks for the advice everyone (NOT!)

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2015 9:24 pm 
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Great thanks for the advice everyone (NOT!)
You posted this LR on the 15th (Yesterday only)

The thread is extremely poorly written. It's been one day and you react like a little whimp? Well, I am pretty sure you ain't gonna get a response at all now. Good job.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 18, 2015 8:33 pm 
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Practice helps, like you said you don't have a consistent slam so that will be essential. When the girl is on top grab her hips and push her back and forth (towards head and feet) firmly. Then your dick will be slammin the g spot, girls cum a lot like that. Its a little bit like music, start slow until you are both on the same tempo and then speed it up in rhythm. Always make her plenty wet first before you penetrate and grab her hair and throw her around a little bit.(maybe not with someone you are having sex with for the first time unless you know what you are doin) Just be paying attention to how she is responding. A good way to start is to fuck her slowly while putting a finger on her clit, and be gentle. then gauge her reaction and go harder/softer


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2015 10:46 pm 
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Practice makes perfect. you're never going to get good at sex by reading about it... Some small pointers though that I believe applies to all girls:

Sex begins before the bedroom, flirtatious talk and behaviour, kissing, touching and cuddling can all be done beforehand. cuddling is especially good because it makes girls feel safe and comfortable which is a key thing for them to let loose and enjoy having sex.

Tease her, plenty of kissing, touching and groping should be done. Don't always go for the fun zones right away, there are plenty of other sexual ways to touch a girl without doing this. the longer you keep her hanging on the more she will want it.

Remember you have more than just a cock! you have a mouth and hands, fucking use them. If you're just slamming away you're doing it wrong. I always make my girl cum with my hands before fucking her and I will use my hands whilst I am fucking her too.

Be confident, girls get turned on by men not boys. If you aren't confident just act it. I get that it's not that easy but it's a must. If something awkward or weird happens, laugh about it.. don't let awkward moments pass because they don't pass they linger and ruin the mood so try to take the awkward moment and turn it into something else (something to laugh about being the easiest)

Have fun, if you aren't having fun then neither is she.


I used to have the same problem as you and I wasn't able to cum from blowjobs/handjobs... It was some bullshit and it bothered my then girlfriend more than it did me, I even sometimes struggled to cum from sex. I looked on the internet and there were all these solutions and ideas of causes of the problems but it was all shite. The problem was I was uncomfortable and thinking too much and just not letting myself enjoy the moment, once I could stop thinking and enjoy, the problem faded for the most part. So if you say your sex was awkward then I'll take a guess and say that you have the same problem I did.

Just be yourself and don't try too hard or worry too much, That shit ain't good for your health.

Edit: just thought I'd add that even if you are never able to cum from a blowjob it really does not matter, use it as foreplay. Enjoy it for what it is, if it's not going to happen don't dwell on it because that's not going to help.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2015 5:15 am 
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Practice helps, like you said you don't have a consistent slam so that will be essential. When the girl is on top grab her hips and push her back and forth (towards head and feet) firmly. Then your dick will be slammin the g spot, girls cum a lot like that. Its a little bit like music, start slow until you are both on the same tempo and then speed it up in rhythm. Always make her plenty wet first before you penetrate and grab her hair and throw her around a little bit.(maybe not with someone you are having sex with for the first time unless you know what you are doin) Just be paying attention to how she is responding. A good way to start is to fuck her slowly while putting a finger on her clit, and be gentle. then gauge her reaction and go harder/softer
Thank You so much....this is good advice....

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 22, 2015 6:13 pm 
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good luck my friend, just start slow!


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 23, 2015 2:54 am 
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I used to have the same problem as you and I wasn't able to cum from blowjobs/handjobs... It was some bullshit and it bothered my then girlfriend more than it did me, I even sometimes struggled to cum from sex.

Why was your girlfriend so upset that you didnt cum? What was she like? (experienced? age? )

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