Hi there,
So I had a wild f**fest with this chick last week, Wednesday, after a 15 month dry spell. Didn't bother to post it to the lay reports section, b/c I don't think anyone could really learn from it. The sex was very awkward, mechanical with no emotional connection or bonding.
She basically is a slut, ,most likely using me as rebound, only 22 with 20 sexual partners (over the past two years) and only one boyfriend in that period.
Well the next morning, after kicking me out the previous night after sexing, she texts me telling me she wants to end it, giving bullshit excuses, but one of the texts is
" I dont think we necessarily get along in the bedroom", hence the reason for this thread.
Dont like to put a label to anything, but I guess we are just FF (I still think?)
I
originally wanted to make her more than a FF (my gf) so I read this entire thread
relationships/topic184592.html (maria gave excellent advice btw)
It is not exactly the same situation, but very similar, and a lot of it resonates with me.
I think I am in a worse off postion than christmas wish, in the sense, that I am inexperienced, and christmas wish seems like a real experienced PUA.
I am quite inexperienced at sex, and am extremely eager to improve: are there any books videos you would recommend? I do not currently have a reliable steady sex partner.
For some reason I can come easily when jerking off/ seeing an escort, but never with a real girl! Even when she gave me head I never came!
and no stupid quips about seeing a prostitute (quit that no more) - not happening!
Their really should be a "Sex forum" where one can discuss various sexual positions.