As I've been looking more and more into as to how exactly the stuff Mystery teaches, David D teaches, and Swinggcat teaches works, I've came to a conclusion.
Bullshit Escalation.
Let me show ya what I'm getting at dawg.
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Mystery says, "If a girl gives you 3 IOIs, you can officially kiss her."
Swinggcat says the key is to framing that you are the prize, when all in all you both know it's just kidding around and such.
David D is all about C&F and personality right? Well it's being FUNNY by being cocky, just like Swinggcat's Prizability.
And then after trying out these methods as an rAFC, one realizes "Hmm... what Swinggcat said isn't necessarily true. I can get women without being 'prizable' so much."
And then comes the state of confusion. They think to themselves a whole lot and are going through a whole lot of emotions and moods because their minds are really really confused.
So... then they get into natural game.
And then in natural game, they start finding out a whole lot of stuff and realize that a lot of stuff Mystery and Swinggcat back up their methods with are actually bullshit.
But you gotta realize, THE METHODS WORKED.
It wasn't because you were framing yourself as the prize, it wasn't because you negged the target and then ran an ESP routine, etc.
It was simply because the rationalizations gave you confidence that the methods are fool-proof.
It gave you the boost you needed to make that extra step into escalating the relationship.
The material and routines? Merely 'fluff-talk' stuff to keep the convo going between you and your target.
The prizability? Merely a tool to help you SHOW OFF THE RIGHT personality.
It's really funny too. because once we realize how some rationalizations were crap, we start shunning away the method and our minds just oppose it.
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So quoted for truth by some PUA teacher person:
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Escalation IS the game.
As long the facts are: You are talking to a girl. You are getting her attracted to you. You are touching her. You are making all the right moves.
It won't matter what you back it up with.
As long as you're out there and interacting, THAT's how you'll get results.
It doesn't matter if you know a shitload about PUA, if you memorized over 500 openers, if you read 50 books on seduction.
You've GOT to start applying this stuff and simply going out there interacting with chicks.
Don't look at how much you know, look at how much you've accomplished.
THAT is the key to success.
Hope you enjoyed it.
<33 Grape
P.S. I think this post goes best with natural game best out of all the boards in this forum.... Ya know, self-motivation, confidence, etc.