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Craakkhhedd
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 Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 5:48 am Post subject: Prevent from being "friend-zoned" |
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| Well, i met this girl at a party i was throwing and she was with her friend. I talked to her, flirting wit her for a bit. the next time i saw her with the same guy she came to my party with, she told me that she wasn't dating that guy so i got her phone number. So now I've got this girl's number and gone on a few dates with her like dinner, movies, bar. for some reason, I feel like i'm slowly moving into the friend zone instead of into a relationship. Any tips on how I can let her know i'm more interested in her for a relationship without looking like an AFC? |
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Giacomo
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| Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 6:14 am Post subject: |
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| Kino. Be cocky and funny and move in for the K-close!!! |
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Severe
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| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 11:39 pm Post subject: re |
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| cant argue wiv dat |
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monie
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| Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:31 pm Post subject: |
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Just what Giacomo said.
Get some kino going, isolate to a seduction point and have confidence when going for the close, if you are uncertain (like an AFC) she will sense it and you'll get knocked back.
Dude if you dont try you will regret it. |
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Mech
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| Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:19 pm Post subject: |
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| triangle gazing helps too (while you're talking to her). Friends don't look at eachother like that. |
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Giacomo
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| Mech wrote: | | triangle gazing helps too. |
I actually did this before learning any of this PUA stuff. It has initiated literally hundreds of smooches for me. Its about letting her know what you want without actually saying it. It is like asking 'do you want to kiss me?' But without any embaressment if she turns away!!!! |
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Apollo
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Yea man, all that helps. Look at this forum, it should help out equally as much. Friend zones are easy to fall into, but they are not impossible to get out of.
[link] |
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Sierra
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ye just go all for it, flirt sole gaze and just go get her man! but play cat and string... hold back and make her come to you... make it out th she wants you.... try and find ways to make the convo's go in the arousing direction... just go get her lol!  good luck... im actually in a similar position |
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ming
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if you have gone on a few dates and nothing has happened... if you havent kclosed yet (or even if you have)... or it hasnt progressed.... then your close to being fucked and slippin into LJBF...
you need to esculate and quick.... what you need to be is DIRECT!! if she has dated you a couple of times, she is interested in you, she likes you, she wants to be affectionate with you...
read some shit on badboy - the king of direct game and just fucking jump in there. you know what you want - and it seems she wants it too (or she wouldnt agree on going with a date with you)
stop being a fucking pussy, grow some nuts and take what is yours!!!
...its time for direct game brother........
haha - and triangle gazing - i forgot all about this - its amazing some of the basics you forget after bein gin the community for a while.... that shit is gold!! |
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Boonen
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| what exactly is triangle gazing? |
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Giacomo
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Look in her left eye.
Then in her right.
Then at her lips.
Hold you gaze only for a short time, but long enough for her to really notice what your doing.
Its kinda like asking to kiss her, without doing.
Gauge her reaction, move in if you get the all clear. |
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Apollo
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| Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Triangle Gaze is one of the best methods I have ever used. It is perfect and always works. I suggest this above most all moves. |
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