Ok, interesting questions. Very specific to situations.
What does a confident man think and act when hes getting fired?
"This is life. I have clearly messed something up, let me learn from my mistakes.
Let me keep going. What are some of the things I can do right now to find a new job?"
And then he get's up and get's going.
When he sees a stranger he wants too talk to?
Stops the person, and honestly says what he wants to say. For example, if he likes a girl, he'll stop and
say something like,
"Hey, I saw you from over there, and I said - I gotta go over there and meet this
person or I will never forgive myself. So what's up with you, where are you headed today?"
Without attaching himself to her, understanding that the conversation could
end at any point, that it probably will and that this will be just a short interaction. In other words, he has
no expectations about it.
When he asks for a cigarette?
He doesn't smoke
When he talks with his friends?
Talks very relaxed, not thinking what should he say next but shares the good time on this planet with them.
When he sees beautiful women?
If he's single, approaches them. If they are in a middle of doing something, he will find a way to get to know them.
When he approaches a beautiful woman?
A woman is a woman. Beauty is something that has some sort of powerful effect on women, but a confident
man understands that a woman is always a woman. She doesn't see you with thinking, but with feeling.
And the greatest feeling women want to feel is safety in the proximity of a man. There's just something about a man who makes her feel safe.
So a confident man will be very relaxed, casual and non-threatening when around a girl. He'll seem so
unattached to getting anything from her, and just have a fun time with her before he moves on.
When he has nothing to say in in front of a beautiful woman?
He says,
"Don't you just love these awkward pauses in a conversation...?"
In other words, a confident person always uses whatever happens to his advantage. No matter what happens, he always finds a way to make it OK.
When talking with a woman, he isn't in his head thinking about what to say, how to get her number or
a kiss from her - but he's
present with her, focused on getting to know her but at the same time very unattached to her
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