Hi all,
I've been finding such difficult to approach girls in the club for ages and i'm really getting to point to feel bad and stop going to clubs. But the thing is that i feel such pussy when coming to approach girls in clubs so i have to do something to make the nights more fun and successful. How to approach girls in clubs while dancing ? there are so many factors that make the situation even harder, such as loud music. Evenmore i see many guys that when they see for example two girls dancing they go infront of them and try to dance with them and i rarely saw girls showing them any interest. In my opinion this is such cheap way how to approach girls. Can someone please help me ? I would appreciate this as i m feeling depressed.

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Approaching in the dancefloor is simple. The problem here is not you, or the guys approaching. The thing is, not every girl is going to be interested, for whatever reasons out of your control. Not your fault. You need to understand that in a nightclub a small percentage of girls will be available to meet a guy, some have boyfriends, some are just having issues, not ur fault. The best you can do is keep opening to find out what type of girl she is, wether she will be open to have fun or not, and most of all, have fun and stay out of your head. The reason guys fail is because they encounter a couple girls that for whatever reason didnt want to talk to them then you guys get into your head and ruin your own night, then the available girl walks by and by this point, your in your head, you stopped having fun, and you stopped approaching and thats what I call "pick up artist death" lol. So stop the kamikaze and keep approaching with a man to woman frame, weed out the girls who dont like you, brush it off, and I garantee you eventually the ones who like you will come in. And as far as how to approach in loud environments #1 go in and dance with her #2 escalate physicality by spinning her, dancing close and sexy ect. If she responded well to you being around #3 if she is into it start getting close and whispering in her ear, name, flirting ect. Then if she likes you lead to quiet area. Done deal. Good luck !

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Extend your hand like you are invinting her to dance. If she likes you, she will dance with you.

If she's not, she won't.

That's the quickest way to pickup girls who are interested with you and will likely go home with you.

You don't even need to say anything, just extend your hand.

If she's not interested, just move on.

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Richard LaRuina has some great content on youtube about nightclub game. It's a two part tutorial called Nightclub Masterclass. I'd start by checking that out, it gave me the tools to overcome my AA.

dtrak makes some good points. I would also add, you don't need to approach everyone on the dancefloor (or close to the d-floor). These same women don't just magically appear there then disappear... they're often moving around the venue, just outside the venue, etc - be extremely aware of different opportunities to approach and hook, when they might be more open to stop and chat (but you still need to open strong, be clear in intent, give value, etc). Then you can build comfort quickly and even take them to the bar/dancefloor, leading properly instead of being another d-floor guy who wants their attention and to be accepted.

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Heres another good pointer that maximizes my dancefloor results - I typically go out on slow nights due to work and most girls I find attractive are dancing so I must do dancfloor game. All dancefloor game takes is basic strategy -

1. Position - position yourself near your target (makes it easier to approach)
2. Dance at a rythm you feel comfortable(be in your world)
3. The 3 times rule motherfuckers !! Try diffrent angles - if you extended your hand and she didnt take it - reach for it (thats my favorite dance opener - tap on the back - eye contact - smile - reach for hand -spin - dance - pull her in - question - im in !

Last week I closed a girl who initially rejected my hand reach in dancefloor - I reached for her hand and tried pulling her in to dance then she droped it and back turned me. I simply danced away then told my self (3 times rulee motherfucker!! So I tried a diffrent angle, this time I returned and I just asked her a question) after that I was in. 2hrs later im fkin her brains out. Hb9.

So thats a point guys, try for the non verbal opener, if that doesnt work try a verbal opener, and if that doesnt work pull a rabbit out of your ass and do some witchcraft idk !! Haha I useually dont try more than 2 or 3 times unless shes showing obvious interest. But dont give up so easily !!

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Non verbal game

(eye contact, being physical etc) ,it's amusing watching chodes try to have a stimulating conversation with a girl dancing.

Whilst, i just get in there, looking sharp, being comfortable, sexually confident, escalating smoothly. All this before even saying a word.

There is tons on info on how to learn non verbal game, use the search bar.

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Dancefloorgame is non verbal for the most part, the natural approach would be a non verbal approach followed by some short questions on her ear if you manage to pull her in followed by more dancing/-whispering in her ear to create connection then eventually after enough dancing and the vibe starts to die - lead out of dancefloor to bar or somewhere quieter.

Whenever I resort to a verbal opener in the dancefloor is always my 2nd option and I lean into her ear so she can hear what im sayin(arm around her shoulder like a boss while I speak), you want to ask short questions "where are you from" "whas your name" and make short statements "you look hot" "your a good dancer" all this while casually dancing and depending on how receptive she is to you then you can escalate and try dancing close pull in.

But yea the dancefloor is defenately not a place to have a full blown conversation, but you MUST converse enough to make her comfortable and excited, by throwing in witty little short liners, pretty common scence rapport building stuff. But is mostly non verbals good eye contact and intent that will have her wanting more. Dont forget to smile and have fun
Theres so many diffrent situations you may encounter but I hope you guys are getting the overall picture

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I think it is nothing to approach the girl in club.You can just relate yourself and don't think so much.

Well, if you have to approach girls on the dancefloor (I personally like to exchange a few words in the quieter areas of the club, at least at the beginning of the night) just forget about talking. There is no point in you unsuccesfully trying to yell things into her ear and it will just bring her down. Try to keep conversations short and goal oriented (for example getting her to a couch). As other members pointed out, just be nonverbal. I used to use "the spin" (grab her by her hand (in a way that she sees you coming, don't give her the "surprise rape" hand) and make her do a spin). I always felt like some kind of caveman while doing it, but you would be amazed at how often it works. Then again, there is little to no art in picking up girls on the dancefloor. She either responds or you fail. Period. No room for winning her over with words, etc. In the end, I think it boils down a lot to looks on there.

Protip: use a good perfume, and spray it A little bit behind your ear. That way, when she leans in to talk to you (she will have to lean in in such a noisy environment) her nosetrils will be exactly over that sweet, sweet cologne smell of yours.

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