I do this a lot in empty bars, but it's best done in an introvert style with absolutely no intentions of gaming or pick up at all. It's basically a complete role reversal, but is absolutely possible to submit yourself and act Beta while still controlling the frame and every part of the interaction; it's done with words and mind games in a lower, rash tone.
The thing I find is, when you go out with the intent of gaming, your energy level is set on high, and as soon as you walk through the door: BAM, your interacting and socializing, and giving off the extrovert Alpha vibe. Instead, when you go out, turn the volume down but maintain a physical presence; walk slowet, keep your head up, and use body language and posture to suggest physical dominance. Think of a bad ass biker walking in. When you converse, keep things short and sweet and avoid eye contact for too long.
Spotting these types of women is easy, like I said, complete role reversal. She'll be the loudest one in a group, doing most of the talking, controlling the conversation, and probably cussing like a sailor. More than likely dressed casual compared to the other women, and usually a smoker. After you sit by yourself for a while, get up, go to the restroom, and when you come back walk right next to her or in the proximity, give a head nod, and turn away. There's a 90% chance she'll open you out of curiosity of why the hell isn't this guy hitting on me. When she does, keep the volume low and respond in short, vague statements that you know how she's going to respond to.
She's going to try to get you out of your shell, and probably bring up something of a sexual nature. Again, when you respond to this, keep the same tone and energy level, and project the fact that sex is something your comfortable with, used to, and not worried about. She'll be the first to make the move or suggest bouncing.
And don't worry about AMOGs, this type friendzones the aggressive direct males, and probably has 2 with her. They're harmless and probably hold you at HV for getting her attention.
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