To put it this way, i need a buddy to do some day game with in london. I've never approached properly before, but i feel like i won't be completely crap like a beginner. For starters i've been told i'm good looking numerous times and i have been keeping up with the community for a couple of years now and i've felt like i have developed my inner game to an extent. I'm 20 years old and i'm going to uni in over a month and basically i want to just take this opportunity to boost my confidence and feel more like i know what i'm actually doing, rather approaching feeling clueless. I think my main problem is that i feel really nervous when i approach and i have a tendancy to give up when i feel like i'm going nowhere. I really feel like i and whoever i go with will benefit from going together (not even necessarily winging), because we can motivate and push each other as well as advice each other on problems that we have identified within each other.

I feel like i've got a few things down in terms of what to do:

1- Body language and tonality
2- Show interest
3- Tease (neg)
4- Touch (kino)
5- Escalate

And my attitude:

1- I'm not here for a result, i'm here to learn how i can attract and close a girl
2- This isn't a battle to capture middle earth, i'm going to enjoy myself as much as i can
3- I'm not going to be roaming the streets, looking like i'm actively approaching women, i think that would look desperate and unattractive. Or jumping up and down like a lunatic whoring the streets, pinging off one girl to another in the street, for the same reason. I want to be walking up and down london, enjoying the vibe of the city and approaching women as often as possible without looking desperate, but appreciative of the woman. Appreciating her as an individual without looking at her as an object that i can simply practice on or simply have sex with.

As you can see it's mostly geared towards direct, natural/inner day game. I'm also okay with hitting up bars, but not clubs, because i don't have the resources at my disposal for that. I may be sounding arrogant or naive, because i know it usually takes people 6 months to get out of the "pain phase", but i feel like i can improve massively if i practice every day of two with someone. So if theres anyone there in London who feels mutual towards my mentality towards this and feels like they can benefit from it as well, please contact me. I really want to get this aspect of my life sorted out.

You seem like you have you head in the right place mate. Bit of advice don't try and find one perfect wing have a few people you can call upon and learn what they are good at it will send leaping forward with what you want out of this.

You can come out with me if you like I will put you in contact with a few other people out of our group there will be someone you will get on with just let me know if you are up for it

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That'd be amazing thanks. Let me know when you or anyone you know can get started, i'd be happy to get started. Finding it hard to actually start doing it if i'm on my own.

Awesome mate my number is 07854321261 drop me a txt we are all meeting up tomorrow you will love it

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