| well i know you posted this on natural game, but mysterys advice still applies on this one.
first you have to make her feel attraction to you, and only then do you show attraction towards her.
let me put it bluntly, its like if you get a rose for valentines from an anonymous person, and it turns out its the fat chick in your class.
but what if you get the same thing from a girl you find attractive?
so first become attractive to her (being an alfa male, having the 4 qualities: leader of men, protector of loved ones, pre- selected by women, and i cant remember the 4th haha look it up) and only then send her the thing.
and even after al this its pretty heavy what you did, it telegraphs a LOT of interest that is not grounded. does she know why you like her?, have you ever made it clear that you like her not just for her looks? ground that shit bro.
as a rule of thumb, i would only sent stuff to girls on valentine's day if they are in some sort of relationship with me.
as of what can you do now with this girl, i would suggest that you need to forget all your feelings for her, live in the moment, and when you are with that girl try to show that you're just a cool guy, do not show her any intentions what-so-ever and let it fade away, as you start showing her how cool and awesome you are indirectly.
the one thing you did awesomely is you now have caught her attention, so if you can be awesome from now on, you may get arround the bad first impression.
DO NOT build high expectations for this one, i would say just find another girl _________________ There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
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