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Experience trumps some lame ass idiot wearing lame ass cloths telling lame ass lines to some lame ass guys.
Just because he has a method, and is in a book doesn't mean shit. I have experience with women(GFs and friends) and if some creepy ass dude came up to them at the bar saying some retarded opinion opener, they would 100% ignor the guy. I'm not saying his method is not good, it is the building block for PU but lot's of his material is horrible. His opener's are crap and you should think of your own that have something to do with the situation.
Really how natural is it to walk up to a women, out of a group of 200 people in a club and ask her her opinion on some irrelevant shit that you shouldn't even be thinking about in the bar. When I started off, I read mystery method and all that crap, it made my approach anxiety 100% worse just because the openers where completely random and just plain stupid. When I stopped and made up my own reason's(openers) or went direct, my AA disapeared like magic!
That opener does suck, and will get you ignored by hot girls unless they are crazy. And you should analyze the lines you use. If they don't feel natural and are stupid, then drop them.
I'm not even going to find flaw in that comment cause you are 100% right. I frankly find
that kind of opener crap, not because it doesn't work sure it does, but I prefer direct game
over indirect game so I prefer more natural stuff then going up to a women an asking
her opinion on something. I don't care for Mystery's stuff, at first when I read his
book and also in The Game it was so intriguing, but you discover better and
more appealing gurus and you learn from them and your whole aspect in
what you desire changes so dramatically all for the better. I agree,
learning indirect game are great building blocks leading up to
becoming a PUA as it shows you the basics of interacting
with women, but I don't think it has as much place
as it did all those years ago. When I was studying
it, my AA was horrible and wasn't going anywhere
because it demanded to be so flamboyant.
Direct/Natural Game is the way forward into the future,
sure I still have my anxieties but learning direct has
improved myself and my general interactions
with women and the way I have perceived
myself it's crazy. The thing is, that all
the noobs and the guys breaking
into the community probably
all read the game and
are recommended to because
it's the best thing to read when first
starting out as it shows you the ropes, but then
they get so caught up in learning indirect and because
that style is so overdone nowadays, it makes it that much
harder for them in the field. You know how much
it must suck for them if they go into the field,
do an indirect opener and the girl says "I'm
sure a guy just asked me that?
"
It's a huge let down I'm sure.
I am eternally grateful for all that Style and Mystery have done,
but I think it's time that Direct takes over and newer transitions begin
to shift in the community. I think it's time, don't you?