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orion
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 Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 7:24 pm Post subject: Poor close or planting seeds? |
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Wondering if anyone can lend some advice for the following situation:
last night, this gorgeous italian i had a crush on forever in high school came back in town. In high school she blew me off with the "let's just be friends" line. Well last night I ran into her, I opened with the painful bump, played the cocky funny card and after about 15 minutes she was kissing me and rubbing her amazing body all over me! Needless to say that previous post on cocky funny being useless is ridiculous. Anyway toward the end of the night 3 other cuties were going to come over for a swim, and they happened to come up and start hugging and kissing me in front of her.
She then asked me what I was doing this weekend while she was in town. I gave her my number (she didn't ask) and left with the girls and my boys.
Two Questions:
1. Should I give her my number and tell her to call me if she doesn't ask?
2. Should I have invited her back to the pool with us, or should I have left the way I did?
Thanks for any help!
-orion |
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dorian
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well done bro. quite a good second first impression you made on her.
I would have asked her to the pool, then isolate her and bang her.
I dunno man, these things are so complex. just make sure you get in touch with her before she starts banging someone else.
good luck bro. |
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Kurent
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1. Never give the girl your number, always get hers. Or at least, swap.
2. Of course you should have invited her over. Always try to venue change or time bridge. The instant date makes it seem like you two spent much more time together (which is good with your reinvented self).
If you were LJBFed by her, you can play that card against her. If she is into you, you LJBF her right back. You'll be amazed by how well it works. People want what they can't have. Hell, I'd say to go for it, but if it doesnt work out. There are always other girls out there. |
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Monkey
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I agree; never give her your number. Especially if you're running cocky-funny. As soon as she stepped foot out of that bar, she was out of frame and, by now, has completely forgotten to call you.
Better would have been something like this:
BHItalian: So what are you doing this weekend?
Orion: Well tomorrow I'm doing such-and-such, and then Sunday you're coming for coffee with me at this-or-that-place (a place with a couch). Other than that, I'm completely free.
And if you can game four girls into a hot tub with you, then start a Massage Circle...  You'd be asking us whether you should switch condoms between girls in a four-on-one orgy.
The answer to which is "Yes," by the by. Buy a big box. |
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orion
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good advice all, thanks for the input.
The more I think of me giving her my number the more I disagree with the action I chose, especially given the direction of my set.
she did not call me, so Monkey was right on the ball, but rather informed a friend that she would be going out tonight and would like to see me. I'll post a field report should the night turn my way!
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Talleyrand
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| Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 3:44 pm Post subject: |
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what a hard problem you have 
If you feel uncomfortable about how you feel you could have said
Looking at HB:
" I am kind of pressed for time, here is my number, we will work something out, also dont call after 9 pm"
Why not after 9 pm? because [ insert earth shattering revalation here].
Orion you left the club with some good looking women and gamed her very well, you have already amply demonstrated personality, yes perhaps the ball is in her court and that makes many people uncomfortable in the pua community, but it is a case of giving an inch to get a mile 
Think about it how elated you will be when she calls you
If she is as hot as you say I am sure she does not do that often [calling men to arrange something]
You can write your own meal ticket bro.
You left woith HB'S to a pool for fuck sakes what does it matter.  |
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