I heard on the radio that a study was conducted that stated 2/3 people that met online had sex on the first date. This has made me want to start gaming online. I would appreciate openers that have worked for you. I am basically looking for something that sets me apart from the rest, and will create interest and will make her qualify herself. Thanks

This openers are not mine, Reminis give them to me but had give awesome results.

Knock Knock

Are You As Interesting as You Look?

and other one was something like

You Picture Is Pretty ?Nice, But in this days every one can has a good picture, what apart your look do you have that could make you interesting? ( probably the redaction is not very good, but i think ypou get the idea)

This is what I typically use

I think your very pretty but is there a good personality to go with those good looks? I'm not shy so I think we should talk and find out

Sounds a bit AFCish but it has worked for me on facebook. By saying I'm not shy I'm DHVing and I also try to make it look like I'm interested in more then just her looks and I try to make her qualify herself to me. It's not 100% but online sarging is different then in the field. Also since I primarily use this after clicking yes on someone on "Are You Interested" on facebook I might comment on something that was on thier profile. One time a girl said she was a "nerd" and I said she was the cutest nerd I've ever seen(neg)

just ask for some opinion that u think she would have.. for eg.

"you look like the type of girl ... i need some advice"

Hey! Are you that crazy fun girl I met on a cruise earlier this summer?!

OMG! Im so glad I found you. Whew!

I bet you have been wondering where I have been all your life. Sorry, I got held up rescuing damsels in distress, slaying dragons, freeing captured unicorns and then of course I got turned into a frog there for a bit. So sorry it took this long to get in touch with you.



p.s.
you are a princess right?

After a rigorously brief overview of your profile I wanted to let you know I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

your ex-hubby,

(Your Name)

P.S.
You can keep the dog and I will keep the house in Hawaii =)

Subject: I'm not sure but
Body: I think you know my friend?

Her: who's your friend?

You: You know Tom right?
http://www.myspace.com/tom

Note: Tom is the founder of MySpace and everyone's first friend

Unless your good with rolling off online conversations, I see this line ending as soon as it was started.

Works like a charm if you transition like this after she replies...

He said you are cool, fun and had a dorky side (you do seem kinda dorky in a fun way...haha) True or False?

These seem to be lines for facebook/myspace. Facebook I wouldn't try them on, given that I seem to have mutual friends with everyone, and I don't think FB has become the 'pick up' place in Australia yet.

Myspace I can see them working.


However, what about on adult sites like adultmatchmaker? Girls typically receive tens of messages a day. How do you stand out if you don't have a hot body, or a pic of your massive 25 inch cock in your profile?

Online openers should be primarily aimed at creating attraction (which
I know is a challenge, hence the reason it pays to get good photos taken and get a new hairstyle), but most AFC guys (myself included when I started) get sucked into foolishly trying to qualify first - be it both themselves and the female as well. Qualifying should always come second, after a lady actually replies and shows interest. If a lady says something decent about herself in her profile, it helps to tailor your opener to what she's said, but if she's been lazy (as most women are) and only offers 1 - 3 lines about herself that tell you almost nothing, she deserves a scripted opener.

Frenzal, 15 - 20% of the female profiles (per metropolitan locality) on AdultMatchMaker are probably fake and created by the site.

Attraction is not really the problem, its the comfort thats the biggie online as girls do have to be on the careful side when it comes to talking to guys online for their own safety. And so you have to focus on trust/comfort as well. Its not an easy balancing act.
I disagree. As I found that I don't always need to qualify the girl. I generally only do it if I feel that I am loosing their interest or they seem to be on the fence interest wise. As I use it as tool to grab their "attention".
I would say the number of fake profiles on that site are higher than that.

I absolutely love this! I laughed pretty hard when I first read it. I decided to try it out and every girl has responded so far. They are pretty interested in finding out who you think they know. Good stuff

I have gotten this opener so often (I think one of the dating sites uses it as a "suggested first e-mail line") that when I get it, I ignore it. It might work, but it's a bit over-used.

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Hobbit says that I should tell you I'm female.....so.....

HI!!! I'm a Girl!