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Stonecutter1
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 12:52 am Post subject: Pickup Women: The Right Attitude |
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Ross Jeffries…
| Quote: | THE ONE ATTITUDE THAT IS THE KEY
TO HAVING IRRESISTIBLE APPEAL TO WOMEN
AND GETTING LAID WITH THE WOMEN OF YOUR DREAMS
Once, one of my super-scoring buddies invited me to go to a party with him. Not having much of a social life anyway, I accepted the invitation, and besides, this guy REALLY knew how to get laid. I sort of looked at myself as being one of those small sucker fish that attach themselves underneath a shark's mouth and live off the bits the shark spits out.
Anyway, we were wandering around this huge apartment complex, looking for the party. We were walking down a hallway when we passed an open door, and there was a party going on, but it was definitely NOT the party we had been invited to. This was a formal affair; everyone was very well dressed, and my buddy and I were both wearing jeans and scruffy tennis shoes.
Through the doorway I saw a stunning blonde in a low cut dress, surrounded by guys trying to hit on her. My buddy saw her too, looked at me, and went right into action. I saw him walk in the door, cut through the crowd of guys, say something to her that I couldn't hear, and hand her a card and a pen. She wrote something down, and out came my buddy, smiling ear to ear. He had gotten her phone number!
I asked him what he said, and he told me, "I just walked in there, looked at her, and said, `Excuse me. I saw you through the doorway, and unlike these gentlemen here, I don't have time for small talk. I'd like to take you out. Can I have your home phone number?'
Now, it's not always necessary to be that direct. But it is necessary to grasp and use the attitude my buddy had, the super-attitude which will get you laid more than any line, trick, good looks, fancy car or fortune. The attitude is:
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
Do you really want to get laid with all the women you could ever possibly want? Then STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF! Don't make excuses for wanting to look at a beautiful woman. If you're caught looking, and she asks what you're doing, tell her!! Tell her you're enjoying studying just what a perfectly beautiful body she has, and to heck with her if she's too uptight to appreciate a real man who doesn't apologize for knowing what he wants!
Stop making excuses for wanting to meet a woman! Stop making excuses for wanting to ask a woman out, and most of all stop making excuses for wanting to FUCK the living shit out of a woman you want! This kind of direct, powerful, go-for-it-attitude is an incredible turn on for women that can't be beaten!
Listen! It isn't even the words you use that convey this attitude! It's your tone of voice, your facial expressions, your posture, the speed at which you speak, everything non-verbal about you will show this attitude far more than words.
This doesn't mean you have to be arrogant, or lack a sense of humor. You can be warm and friendly at the same time you are being direct and powerful. The key is finding the balance. Once you do you will not be able to keep women away from you.
Now, it's easy to talk and tell you that you should have this attitude, but that won't help you to actually get it. That's why the next couple of chapters are so important. They will show you how to install this attitude in yourself so that you automatically find yourself living by it in your approach to women. You won't even have to try or to "think about it." It will just happen.
Here's the other attitude/belief you'll want to master if you really want to be a success at scoring with women like a madman.
I DON'T GET RATTLED BY SETBACKS
BECAUSE I LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES. |
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Alex
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 9:21 am Post subject: |
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WOW, thats some great advice. As everyone i have my better an worse days when picking up chicks, but thats what its like when your at the peak of your performance.
Its like even if your shot by ten bullets in the chest you just keep going on, or in a boxing match when all your senses are perfectly tuned an your at your peak of performance, the feeling is great.
Simply put, to me its all about beeing UNSTOPABLE! |
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snow
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Posted: Thu Aug 10, 2006 10:27 am Post subject: |
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Sounds a bit like cocky funny mixed with the I dont give a fuck attitude .
Pretty nice thankx for the tip.
cheers
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orion
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| thanks for the post |
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BIGROB
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Posted: Mon Aug 28, 2006 8:39 pm Post subject: Thats cool |
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I LOVE IT!!!
I am gonna go out there and just do it. No EXCUSES |
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spiderman1
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quick question:
if there are say 3 girls 3-4 guys (mixed set) do you still approach and try to wow them? i mean what if the dudes they're with are together or some shit
dont get me wrong, taking someones girl right under their nose would be hilarious wathcing them afc's struggle and get all macho shit like that, but what if they try beefing or fighting you or trying to pull an alpha 'im gonna fuck you up' type bullshit. anyone have any ideas trying to resolve or even better, avoid that type while still stealing the girl?
sometimes when im approaching i hesitate when other guys are around just cuz im not too good at disarming obstacles right now and in other words, can i get some pointers?
like in that quote where the dude walks in the door talks down the others guys to the stunning blonde... i mean, if one of those guys was the b/f and the others were his friends that situation would have ended up pretty badly for those tennis dudes haha
anyways, any help? thanks
and cheers |
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Posted: Mon Sep 04, 2006 3:01 am Post subject: |
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| spiderman1 wrote: | quick question:
if there are say 3 girls 3-4 guys (mixed set) do you still approach and try to wow them? i mean what if the dudes they're with are together or some shit
dont get me wrong, taking someones girl right under their nose would be hilarious wathcing them afc's struggle and get all macho shit like that, but what if they try beefing or fighting you or trying to pull an alpha 'im gonna fuck you up' type bullshit. anyone have any ideas trying to resolve or even better, avoid that type while still stealing the girl?
sometimes when im approaching i hesitate when other guys are around just cuz im not too good at disarming obstacles right now and in other words, can i get some pointers?
like in that quote where the dude walks in the door talks down the others guys to the stunning blonde... i mean, if one of those guys was the b/f and the others were his friends that situation would have ended up pretty badly for those tennis dudes haha
anyways, any help? thanks
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When you open a mix set your going to talk to the guys(not your target ).
Quick example :
Opening a Mixed Set:
PUA : Hey guys... Wich beer you think is better : Heineken or corona
AMOG: Corona.
Other guy: Corona.
PUA: I actually think Heineken is better but anyway did you guys watch the girls fight outside ?
AMOG: NO
(Guys love this topic)
(at this time you might get the atteniton of the girls)
PUA: Story telling.... About the girls fight. - End of story.
PUA: So how do you guys meet each other.
AMOG: We just met / She is my GF / We r friends .
Now proceed to next routine.
* Notice that you were just asking something to the guys , you werent even talking to the girls so there is no reason for them to kick your ass , not yet  |
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tickler
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Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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| would defo work |
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xfman
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Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 3:12 am Post subject: |
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| tickler wrote: | | would defo work |
There you go , female opinion.
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tickler
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Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 6:38 pm Post subject: |
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| anytime hunx |
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Jaxin
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Posted: Mon Oct 09, 2006 12:07 am Post subject: |
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| whats "defo" |
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tickler
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Posted: Mon Oct 09, 2006 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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short for definately
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 10:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Yea good post xfman. I would deffantly use that as an approach to the group |
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xfman
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 11:43 pm Post subject: |
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I have field tested and it works , but tell me how it goes out for you ....
Keep us posted |
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Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 12:24 am Post subject: |
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i hate to admit but i read it and i was really doubting it...and than today i tried it and i must admit that was the scariest shit ever... i never expected it to work and it (amazingly does)...thanx for the tip, greatly appreciate it  |
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