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waewae PUA Forum Addict Joined: 10 Mar 2009 Posts: 242 Reputation: 41.4 votes: 1	Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 4:42 pm    Post subject: Parties, attract while talking. So so... I was partying on Saturday, and everything (in fact nothing) went like I wanted. Now, Im asking for some advices so I can get everything going on again: I went to these parties tired, thought that IT WOULD BE NICE to get a woman today. These were kind of college parties, Im turning 18 next year. Well, I started drinking beer and chatting with friends, but everyone was already drunk and I was like, what tha hell! Tried to get something in my head so I could set in the mood of partying and flirting with women (I know, this is such a bad habit!!!!!!!!) The thing is, I have almost ALWAYS got my women with super confidence (ála alcohol) within 30seconds from the meeting. Like dancing, escalating really quickly. Well, I wasnt in the mood of dancing, so I was lost. I end up spending time with only guys, and dancing just a bit. I need solutions for situations like this. I have only couple times being able to attract chicks with only talking and little touching. Someone tell me how to attract at parties, while you are just sitting your ass and when you have gathered social proof by greeting (hugging, high fives etc.) people, talking with everyone. I know how to be alpha (or how act like one, its more like a right word for meh). What kind of talk should I be talking when I go to sit with some of my friends and chicks, because fluff talk isnt getting me anywhere. How do I ATTRACT the group. Question 2: When at the parties, should you be very active and go around or can you just sit at the same place for long time, talking and playing games and still attract women. And yes, Im more of natural than user of some method
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Jaybot PUA Forum Leader Joined: 11 Sep 2008 Posts: 1647 Location: UK Reputation: 186 votes: 9	Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 5:40 pm    Post subject: personally I love fluff talk, combine it with good eye contact and the girl will know you are interested, then you can isolate later or make an excuse to isolate with her and then you can do the dhv'ing etc
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Brah Member of PUA Forum Joined: 05 Oct 2009 Posts: 133 Reputation: 20.5 votes: 2	Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:34 pm    Post subject: try doing the stylelife challenge. it will help.
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waewae PUA Forum Addict Joined: 10 Mar 2009 Posts: 242 Reputation: 41.4 votes: 1	Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:19 pm    Post subject: Jaybot, with that eye contact do you mean that little flirting with eyes and facial expressions? My game is direct only on dancefloor, otherwise its indirect. Its about teasing, being c&f and being valuable. Should I be thinking about that what belongs in which category or can I just mix direct and indirect game? Or should I have straight destination that Im trying to reach? Or maybe use this new "Stealth Attraction"?
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Jaybot PUA Forum Leader Joined: 11 Sep 2008 Posts: 1647 Location: UK Reputation: 186 votes: 9	Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:22 pm    Post subject: yar just holding eye contact and conveying interest
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