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 Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 4:50 am Post subject: Opinions on some of my own openers/DHV stories or w/e |
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I've always had problems holding eye contact with strange girls. But thats a problem I'm slowly getting rid of.
Ok so lets say me and random HB are holding eye contact on a train or something
me *smile* "Is there something on my face?"
she might be like huh or something like that
me naw I'd appreciate it of you just told me, it is kinda impolite to stare *smile*
I have this test somewhat similar to palm reading that I thought of just to feel like I'm running some of my own stuff
Your conversing with the girl, and all of a sudden you look down at her hands for a second. I've taken a course on psychology before and I learn that in a way personality analysis can be bs in that somethings can apply to anybody if you look hard enough
me "you know you can tell a lot about a girl just by looking at her nails?"
so you take her hand in yours, which is also the obvious excuse to kino
make sure their nails are nice then say
"looks like you spent some time on them. this usually means that you believe that a lot of your self experession comes from your appearence
or if their kind of ecletric say
"I noticed that their kind of different. *Point out what about them makes them stand out.* "this usually means that one of your main motivations is to stand out a bit from the crowd"
I also thought of something to follow up the "fake hair" neg or however you call it.
Open the HB by asking if her hair is real.
Hypothetically she should respond with the "what?!" reaction since the question does seem kinda random
me "Well believe it or not, I was making out with this girl once, and not too long into it, I found her cute blonde hairdo on my lap. Your hair kind of reminded me of hers *smile*"
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Interesting.... but i believe your opener is more creepy than inviting.
It's jumping the gun, the neg has happened before you even had a social hook. Its like "oh... okay. i gotta get out of here"
Unless your body language is THAT good, and if she was in a talkative mood. You'd have to consider how she's looking at you too.
Your situation is very specific. You can pull it off, given that the situation suits. It is easier to start of with an opinion opener, it helps you go under the radar.
The rest of the material look good. Except for that last part. It looks like your bragging in a way. So make a DHV story out of it. Project as much as you can that what your telling her is an event and not something your proud to shout out to the world just because it's great. You can do better than that I'm sure.
It's all about your inner game. Just as a weapon is an extension of a man, your material is an extension of your game. |
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