DJGCrusader
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 Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 10:38 pm Post subject: Opinions on being the AMOG of your friends, not for girls |
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Yeah, I know this is a Pick-up forum, but the info some of us might share here could seriously help our lives, thus making us more confident at pickup.
Everyone posting here, please answer the following questions:
How does one become the AMOG of a bunch of guys in an all-guys environment?
What factors come into play?
If one screws up and is seen as the loser of a group, can one get back up the ladder?
I'll answer these myself:
1 and 2. You gotta make a chill first impression. Remember, an alphamale doesn't have to be a jerk, but don't let ANYONE mess with you. If someone wants to (verbally) fight, don't just look down and away. Get in their face, show that you have some status. Neg the supposed "leader" of the group. Also demonstrate some higher value. This works as well on guys as it does on girls. We're all human. Now, upon doing so, you'll be accepted and not seen as a pushover. In turn, test out other members of the group, see their limits, and then slowly back off and show respect. You will thus gain respect.
3. In my opinion, I think one should altogether not associate with the group that hurt you, learn some sarcasm and wisecracks, and work your way up. Get some friends who are cooler than you, and flaunt em. Hang out with them. Bond with them. The other group's members will see this and think, well he has a life, maybe he just screwed up. Some of the Beta members of the group will associate with you, and just be chill and alpha about it. eventually, get close with the alpha of the other group. if he invites you to something, say no. You got something more important to do. Next time, consider it. And there ya go
. Whatever you do, don't be ashamed at what youre good at. wether it's school, sports, music, video games, drama, art, anything. Embrace it and make it a bigger part of your life, because it shows you have something better to do. It also shows that that is more important than other things.
After all this, the girls will come. Oh boy lol. Master the PUA arts? Even better.
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Hobbit
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I naturally rise to alpha status slowly, even when hanging with my alpha friends. It comes from my willingness to go solo. If were eating at a table, I don't need the group to leave for me to leave. Or when they tease/insult me, I show no reaction. All these things slowly make people follow me, because we are friends and they know I'm not following them. They want to maintain the friendship, so their forced to follow.
It's worked good for me thus far. |
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