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TNation
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 Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 9:47 am Post subject: Online sarge to Real life sarge NEED HELP! |
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Hey all;
i'm a fairly experienced but relatively amateur PUA. However I enjoy new challenges and new women but however I am finally relatively stuck. I've met several girls from off online in person and things were great. In this latest case, I knew of this HB9.5 model who I had never met who knew an acquaintance of mine and I poked her on facebook (the most creepiest thing you could do). She poked back, I messaged her, initiated the sarge, it worked, not too much later, phone number, msn, etc etc. I can post it if someone is really interested, it was great.
Anyways, we've talked a lot on the phone, I've used the busy technique several times, I always hang up the phone first etc etc, I follow the techniques precisely. However in the initial time we were to meet, she cancelled at the last second (i think she's nervous). Now I've been even more rude, ignored some of her texts, told her I'd call when I haven't (which she'll text me a day later and be like "way to call me"), and she'll still call me, like she just called me 10 minutes ago. I've noticed lots of IOI's such as "I want a good boyfriend" and "I wish i could have a graduation date" etc etc but I'm not sure what to do. Like how do I get her to hang out? Its not really going anywhere, and I'm not sure what to say. Does she just want me to talk to her as a friend and never meet or what?
She's so gorgeous and actually really nice (if not spoiled haha). Basically, how do I get her to want to meet me ASAP!
Thanks guys! |
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rjd2424
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:05 am Post subject: |
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I'm not sure if you've actually met in person, I didn't bother reading the whole thing, but it sounds like you need to use some KINO!!
Keep in mind if you keep blowing her off, she'll just forget about you. Same thing if a girl blew you off, you'd forget about her. |
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xTxHxExJxOxKxExRx
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:22 am Post subject: |
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id just say something like, hey sorry i couldn't make time to catch up on you, but id like to have lunch with you on "X"day and actually talk in person.
if you decide to try it let me know how it went. |
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TNation
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 8:29 am Post subject: |
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ahh didn't work
she's already cancelled on me before and put 'lol' as her answer |
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iCandy
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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I would say get out there and meet other girls, don't worry so much about her for now. Not only would this take your mind off of her but also you'd be demonstrating non-neediness and you could definitely play the jealously card. Suppose she were to call and ask what you were up to you could say "Oh, I'm just about to get some diner with Heather (or whatever name you like this of course doesn't have to be true at all)" then if she asks who that is you can say some girl you met at a party the other week or whatever, but then finish it with something like "Alright well I got to get going, later" or something.
Whenever you feel shes dropping hints (I really want a good bf, date, etc.) feel free to call her out on that. Say like "wow, way to drop hints haha" she'll either get embarrassed (cause she knows she was), or she'll be embarrassed (cause she didn't know she was untill you mentioned it), but in my experience both of these seem to be pretty good outcomes, or she'll shit test you saying (oh please! get over yourself / dont flatter yourself haha) which you can either ignore or say something like (good, cause we'd never work out. were just way too alike! or Im too nice for you, or your too nice for me etc etc etc).
Good luck bro |
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