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AceSpade
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 Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 5:48 pm Post subject: Okay I broke the ice, now what? |
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I've always been great at just walking right up to people and striking up a conversation. Using some techniques I can now disarm a male or two in the group unless hes the AMOG which is a little more difficult. But here's my dilemma, I open, i make sure to touch early, and I neg. I feel like I get the correct response when I neg (the girl usually finds one of her friends thats around and says, "OMG this guy just told me i look like a mouse!" or something to that extent. And I don't know how to react. I have this bad habit of almost apologizing on the spot because both girls are looking at me like wtf did this dude say (but i think its good cuz they are shit testing me), but what do i do? Do I engage the friend? Do i play it off? If so, how? or do i run a routine like cube or something of the likes at this time?
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requiem
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| Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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| segways are tough. usually i find that just changing the subject and going to another routine while they're perplexed keeps them off balance, trying to catch up and re-validate themselves to you. it also shows that you actually have things to talk about, rather than succumbing to that awkward silence while they're looking at you with that "what did he say?" look. engaging the friend would be a good idea too. always if your target is in a group you want to engage them. if the friends are cool with you then she's cool with you. |
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Custom
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| Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 7:07 pm Post subject: |
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Good shit Req!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can't really say anything else...
I mean just keep it moving a long ya know...
If she is like "Oh my gawd..." just be like... "Don't take it personal, just take it..." and then give her a wink or a smirk and continue with the game... |
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magicaljet
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:47 am Post subject: |
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| When U neg... try to cover it up with a good compliment... then neg again its all a game.... untill u finnaly leave her wondering if ur interested or not |
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Fierce
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:04 am Post subject: |
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| do her. |
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Simple
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| Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 6:17 pm Post subject: |
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lol, just push and pull...
but remember, you should'nt just use all the canned stuff all the time. be yourself, because nobody can keep up a fascade for ever, eventually your personality will come out anyway, so why not introduce it a bit, near the begining?
hope i helped,,, simple |
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