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PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:03 am    Post subject: ok this is confusing ... Reply with quote

this is really anoyin me and its ruining my confidence .. i dont know how but its dragging me down... k here goesss


When i go out and drink i mean a good bit now not tipsy or half cut but a decent amount i can game a girl with easy the convo just flows and the chemistry is just there ... but when im sober the next day or maybe a few days later and i try to talk to them i have no idea of what to talk about ... i choke i dont know what to say none of the material is comin to me .... this is bugging me i cant take it .. am i gonna have to get outa my head stoned everytime i go to meet a girl or what ?this has happened countless times...Sad any advice is more than appreciated..



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 2:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey how we all doing?

First off it is all in your head if you can talk to her while your drunk then while your sober you should be amazing.

This is not the case as you let the evidence of your life say that it is impossible. Nothing is impossible the root of your issue is that you cannot let loose and relax when your sober thus your confidence and improvisional skills are lacking.

How do we fix this? We fix this through practice with socializing in all aspects of life. Get other fun things hobbies, events etc so that you are always enjoying yourself and have lots to discuss.

If you want it you can have it, everything good takes effort!

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Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

^ agree
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