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BlackCloud
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 Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: Ok, heres a big CRY FOR HELP |
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The myspace method, I find it works a treat...at getting hot women to reply. However, the problem is taking from the opener. We;ve got some very successful examples from whoopie etc...but when I use the "no personality" line or "real hair" line, I get responses...but their usually rather negative. And your already labelled as an extremely odd person.
For example, how'd you get round this?
Me: Hey I bet your just another good looking girl with NO personality because your profile is kinda lacking.
Her: y dont u fuck off den =]
In my opinion, the "opinion" option, of asking her opinion on something doesnt work on the teenage market. So how do you follow on from negative responses like this, without using "opinion"?
Also, being a "cocky" person on the second reply shuts it down completely....
Some help I guess, or some advice, is needed. |
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Whoopie
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Hey thats my line and since you use my line I will help you out.
One she replied...So she went out of her way to respond. Two she put a smile face in the message which means she was kidding.
Try something along the lines.
"Why would I do that. Your the one smiling and giving off mixed signals. Maybe you do have some personality. A weird one but something is there!"
or super cocky
"If I did fuck off you wouldn't be able to show me that personality of yours. Well if you got one!" |
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BlackCloud
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Yeh I don't plan on robbing it dude, I was doing a test like I said in the myspace method forum. Trying different techniques and seeing how people respond.
I did find with your one that if you don't get the second comment 100% perfect your over - whereas with others, you have a little more leway before she cba to reply to you  lol
Ta for the help...I'll try that...and perfect my own lines |
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Whoopie
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| lol I don't mind that you use my lines. It doesn't bother me. I always try to come up with someone new on the spot anyone. I try my best to stay from canned material but sometimes it the first thing that pops in the head and you just go with it. |
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Vap0r
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your messages have to be congruent with your personality. I think whoopie's opener works great for him but others might not be able to pull it off.
Whoopie might not like this but I'm going to say it... I think he can get away with more because he's a good looking cat and has a particularly high value job...PLUS I bet his profile is really solid. There are other factors that influence her reply besides the actual message. A girl can read your opener and think you're an asshole/loser then go to your profile and see a bunch of social proof comments/pictures and immediately second guess herself and think "well other girls seem to like him..." |
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-Mystic-
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Im stil quiet new, and learning so you can disregard anything i say if you like.
Whoopie has some great responses and as Vap0r says its tailored for him. I have found thats the key on myspace, you can say anything to get there attention but responding with your personality is important. If you use big words on your profile and respond with slang it wont look right.
Another great thing about myspace is its not face to face contact, its easy to face rejection... the best way to figure what works is do it and see if it works for you, if not i can almost be certain you will get another shot to adapt on another female...unless you lock yourself in a closet.
the best thing to avoid is not portraying yourself in your messages as you do on your profile. Its like mannerisms in real life, ladies can sense these things. Get into the mentallity that it doesnt matter if you fuck up with this one, analyze where you went wrong and fix it. NO REGRETS.
Personally now i dont care how they view me: Example.
ME: Aww - you're so cute... but you make me SO SAD!
HB: ok? why is that?
ME: Oh..No! YOU DONT KNOW!
Hey let me get your opinion real fast...do you prefer cats or dogs?
HB: neither they are both gross...your creepin me out by the way.
ME: The price i pay for being unique...im usually ok when i take my meds tho.
HB: Thats a joke right?
ME: Ill tell ya tommorow when i see you, ill give you a call with the directions.
HB: what? you dont have my number?
ME: Ya know...i dont know if i can continue this relationship, i cant even remember the last time we spoke on the phone, let alone had sex. Its over, its not fair to me anymore.
HB: Your cute in a weird way...do you really want to meet me tommorow?
I number closed and we are going to meet, the point is dont stress one girl, if it works for you and its your personality great, if not adapt it.
Dont know if any of this helps, but i hope it does. |
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networkman
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be funny first then cocky. tat shud lessen the girls anger. lol
Eg
PUA: R u wearing a wig?
HB: No. why?
PUA: In one of ur pic u look like u r? lol Muz be ur stiffy (STIFF GET IT) hair. (Neg)
HB: lol
PUA: What shampoo ur using to get ur hair so STIFF? lol
HB: Oh i'm using Lorreal bla bla bla
Then u can go & talk about hair, looks, guys looks, wat kind of guy looks she like.
Lead to anywhere.
Remember, always FOLLOW UP & lead to a meet UP
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UleeKunkel
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| Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 2:55 pm Post subject: What's the next step |
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I posted this on Craig's List
(Title)
Here's the Reality
I'm repulsed by whiners. No "princesses". If that's the case you're boring as hell and I AINT gonna play your daddy. You're lucky Im even posting this ad. Send a pic.
(Her response)
Hi there,
LMAO! I just had to reply to you for nothing more than to tell you, your ad rocks. I love the no bullshit approach.
Oh, I have a girly day job, and have to wear make up, but that's as far as the princess thing goes, I don't wear any jewelry and hell, my ears aren't even pierced. I whine from time to time but always make sure I have cheese on hand to help with that. hehehe I hate whiners to, they can be toxic to people.
Ok, have a good one, write back if you think I'm tough enough...lol |
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