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OneManWonder
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 Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 5:31 pm Post subject: Oh this blows, what should I do!? |
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So Ive been gamming this HB9 for three weeks now. We have been on three casual dates and things have been going swell. All of our dates have been at cofee shops during the day, I find it a lot easier to buld sexual attraction at night. She has a boyfriend but Ive been running a solid game and we def have an attraction and strong rapport.
Anyways now that your caught up. I got a call from her last night. I dont remember the exact convo but it went something like this
HB: Hey! How are you doing? How about Late LATE night after I work we doing something exciting. Like go run around jump some fences and run through gardens than back to your house.
Me: I like where your going with this! Lets plan for it later.
So from what I can tell she is now offering to make the switch from day dates to night dates. I don't know why I feel so strong about this but I know she wants to take a step foward in our sexual relationship. This is the break that Ive been working for three weeks.
THE PROBLEM!
Friday night is a concert that I really want to go see. I've pretty much made plans with a friend to go to Tampa and see the band. I sensed some spontinaety in her voice and Im wondering if this is something that I'll replan it wont end up like she intended too. Like, she could have a frame build right now that friday we are going to finally hook up and shes finally going to ditch her looser boyfriend. I don't want to break this frame. Skipping the concert is an option but Id much rather just re plan.
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xray6251
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| Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 5:33 pm Post subject: |
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| full close that shit, worry about the concert some other time. |
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Lokey
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| yeah. she is wanting something spontaious. she is yours for the taking. if you ditch her for the concert u might miss your oppurtunity. |
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xray6251
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| Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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just think like this:
one concert no fuck from HB9
no concert lots of fucks from HB9
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OneManWonder
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true damn haahaa I guess I really did know what i had to do... just in denial
Now I've got to think of something spontaneous to do than get her to come back home to watch a movie. |
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Corso
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I don't know why but I'm getting a bad feeling about this girl.. Does she know you had plans to go to that concert?
Don't let her push you around she might just be temporarily pissed at her BF..
I'm sorry if I'm complicating things further for you..
If you just want to fuck her you should probably cancel the concert.. If not, let her sweat for a bit.. HB9's are used to getting what they want and when they do they can get tired of it really fast..
| Quote: | | HB: Hey! How are you doing? How about Late LATE night after I work we doing something exciting. Like go run around jump some fences and run through gardens than back to your house. |
She's not afraid of rejection thats for sure. Remember that you are the prize..
Out of curiosity.. Whats the concert? |
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xfman
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| Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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In that position I will go to the concert , girls can wait, enjoy your friends and make her wait.
* It all depends on how much you want the girl and how much you wan tthe concert.
But if you want them both, I will go for the concert.
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OneManWonder
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She had no clue I had plans to go the the concert.
I want the girl pretty bad haahaa. I remember last year I saw her and was like O.O omg shes perfect. I finally got the time to approach her three weeks ago. I'd explain how good of a girl she is for me but it would sound like I have one-itis, which I dont. I'd like a friend/sex relationship from her but no dating.
I was going to see piebald and Mc Chris. I really like Mc Chris and have never seen him yet
I don't know why but I'm getting a bad feeling about this girl.. Does she know you had plans to go to that concert?
Don't let her push you around she might just be temporarily pissed at her BF..
I see what you mean by this. During our past dates she has NEVER told me she has a boyfriend. Shes actually refered him as a friend for example I read on her myspace a comment by him saying how hes comming down that weekend and cant wait etc. That friday I asked her if she has any major plans this weekend and she say meh just a friend comming down to see me, thats all. I think this isnt something where shes pissed at her boyfriend and wants to do something about it. I think its always been this; She likes me alot, understands im a better man and better to be around than her boyfriend, but she is scared that im just looking for a fuck and doesnt want to break up a relationship shes in for a one night stand. |
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Slipfinger
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Tbh id vote for the concert, fuck mate dont give in to early to demands ask to reschuduelle, tell her you allready have plans made, get it into her head you have a life of your own, and she needs to respect your shit.
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Smile4now
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| Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 6:37 pm Post subject: |
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I put my fart in the air in profit for the concert.
Is the concert soldout? if it aint maybe you could ask her to come along. |
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