Dza
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 Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 2:27 pm Post subject: OH NO! losing a HB9! Help... |
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On Friday was waiting in an office which had an empty waiting room, and the girl working there was fine, HB9 (trust me!)
well, i start friendly conversation, she was very responsive, but still just being nice...
Started neging her constantly, then asked some advice about local hot spots for going out, told her stupid stories, making the girl laugh...
she gave me a pass for a party that night she had(VIPpass!)and said she gona be there!(IOI) The thing is i already kinda knew i wouldnt be able make it, but i said i will defiently give a go...(maybe a mistake?)
I even managed to fit in the five questions game, which went down really well, first time i used it...I thought it would seem fake, but the girl really responded well...
anyways after i was leaving the office i went past the waiting room again, and she asked `how did it go` talked some sh*t, then said your really interesting, im gona take your number and im inviting you out if i cant make it tonight...(while im saying this some big weird guy walks in looking at me shocked while shes taking the phone, and she says hi to him like she knows him?) so she took the phone put the number in and said her names monica(oh shes so hot!) i said `see you later`...
As im walking out i, kinda heard the guy say to her `are you crazy?`
Well anyways, i didnt make it to the party, but i didnt call her that evening to let her no(maybe 1st mistake?)but I call the next day around 5pm try to arrange something(maybe2nd mistake?should have asked her for a coffee or somthing nuetral?) she picks up, im like hey! she like hey, how are u, i say how was the party,then...beeep beep! phone cuts off! wow,did i get shut down? but! she sent a text in her language `hi, my battery keeps dieing  ` then again text in english so i can understand(i didnt feel so bad now, she sent 2 messages, maybe IOI?)
BUT THEN!!! I wait no call, then i called around 8:30pm(maybe3rd mistake, probably should have just left it?) and some guys picks up the phone,
im like `monica there?`
hes like `whos this?`
im like `dza`
hes like `shes busy right now`
im like `well let her know i called... thanks, bye`
hmmmmm...not what i was expecting, no call back, i havent called..its been 2 days now, do i call? leave it longer?make a trip to the office?or leave it altogether?
Trust me guys shes a HB9 i think its worth the work, any advice?
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JackSwift
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| Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 9:45 pm Post subject: |
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If she's hot enough, I would go back to that office. Tell her that "You think the other guy is a little jealous of you, and isn't passing along your calls." I know that it looks weak going back their, but then again, WORST that can happen is that she loses interest and it ends, which sounds like that may happen now if no call back anyways. I'd give it one or two more days, then drop by or something. Keep us posted, and I'm hoping the HB9 gives you a shout back.
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simp|e
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i think not calling because you couldn't make it to the party hurt ya man. being honest is usually the best thing to do. by not telling her, she knew that you were just trying to make her happy...make her happy why? to get in her pants?
if she really is an hb9, she's probably used to attention of all sorts. best thing to do for her type is to deny her attention. i think calling her and trying to make things work will push her away. only way is to get to her emotions -- let her know that you see something in her other than her looks -- and that you aren't threatening.
maybe make an appointment at the office again and hopefully she'll be there? but don't make it about her. |
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