Oh man, women really like to be told what to do, huh?

So Close

Seems like it. I don't mean, "go make me some food" or anything like that, but it seems as though they hate making decisions.

It seems I have much greater odds of getting with a chick if I'm the one making the decisions, why is this? Something instinctive, wanting the man to make choices for them? I never make her do something she would hate to do, but most seem to like it when I decide on most things.

BigB · Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 7:38 pm Post subject:

you may be in this for the wrong reasons, think about it

Archangel White Rose · Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 7:48 pm Post subject:

It's not just women, it's everyone. Sorry to break your dream of people being free, but the sad truth is that the large majority of people prefer not to make decisions on their own. Most people find it so much easier to let others make decisions for them. This is why people will follow others who seem more powerful and confident, confident people are capable of making decisions, it is easier for simpletons to rely on other decisions, this also saves them the pain of making mistakes.

DoubleD · Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 8:45 pm Post subject:

I find that women like to be told what to do in the bedroom too. They love that shit. They eat it up like candy! The other day, my GF told me she wanted me to take control in the bedroom and tell her what I wanted and she would do anything and everything. So of course I took advantage of it BIGTIME! Hey...she asked for you and I delivered.

Now she wants it like that most of the time and I'm in heaven. Can you imagine it...you can get away with anything in the bedroom. Name calling, whatever. Try it guys....you will love it.

Cheers and happy sarging,

Double D

So Close · Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject:

boobster · Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 11:07 pm Post subject:

Women and AFCs. Wink

So Close · Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject:

C-DUB · Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 12:02 am Post subject:

Dude, you're trying to become a PUA! That means you make the decisions, not her.

Understand a woman, she doesn't wanna be seen as a slut for hooking up with you, they need a reason.

So you could say to them something like "hey wanna come over to my place for a bit and listen to this new cd, etc. blah blah"

Now she can justify it.

Holden · Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:46 am Post subject:

Generally, people need to be governed.
The concept being discussed here is Leadership, the proving ground of AMOG's. Now not to toot my own horn but this is an area I excel at with fellow men because my job demands it (think guns).

Like PUA, Leadership involves influencing people to do things. And a lot of times, people give up their right to be controlled very easily.
So the next time someone says "What should we do now?", don't say "I dunno". Stand Up, do what you want but keep in mind what others would enjoy and take the credit for taking the lead.

"A leader of Men is a Leader of Women" - Mystery

BigB · Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 3:29 am Post subject:

hey So, i kind of read your original post wrong, forgive me. To answer your question, you have to look back to the cave man days. But let me tell you from experience, and this really depends on how you are, but its the women that are agressive not passive that are the best ones. Everybody loves the thirll of the hunt, both women and men. So challange yourself

Difference · Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 3:50 am Post subject:

Yeah, as a few have said, no one likes making decisions, cos if it ends up being a bad one, you're the one who gets the blame in a fashion. You have to be careful when being direct and assertive and decisive, that you don't come off as bossy and arrogant. For example

pua: Hey, doing anything on the 23rd?
hb: Not that I know of
pua: cool, come to this concert with me.

pua: going out tonight?
hb: yeah I guess so.
pua: k, Im coming over for some pre drinks.

If they are really against it they will say no, but there's a much higher chance they will accept than if you say 'do you want to come...'

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