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 Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:42 am Post subject: oh god...is she pissed at me, or jealous of others? naked |
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Lol, title wasn't long enough so it looks messed up.
I know this chick slightly, we've talked before in the past...she just got over a relationship and is single...I acted upon this opportunity and gave her an opinion opener...she replied with several lines...but that's not what my question is about.
About 5 minutes later she replied, again, with a large paragraph.
| Quote: | | hey, i just looked at your profile, and if you want some advice from a girl, i can tell you another thing, but don't take it the wrong way, because i'm just trying to be useful :p girls really hate it when guys have pictures of half-naked models all over (like on your profile) on their walls or cell phone backgrounds or whatever. it makes us feel like we're not good enough for you, especially if we're your girlfriend; then we feel as though even though you're dating us, you would drop us in an instant for a shot with one of those models. just something to think about. |
My profile has stacy keibler(hottest chick imo) in a bikini as the background...nothing nekkid, but half naked I guess. Should I change it? I always thought you wanted to make other chicks jealous...hmm. |
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| Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 2:57 am Post subject: |
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| oh yeah. should i reply to her message about my profile? i plan to reply to 1st in a few days... |
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| Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 1:08 pm Post subject: Re: oh god...is she pissed at me, or jealous of others? nake |
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| So Close wrote: | | hey, i just looked at your profile, and if you want some advice from a girl, i can tell you another thing, but don't take it the wrong way, because i'm just trying to be useful :p girls really hate it when guys have pictures of half-naked models all over (like on your profile) on their walls or cell phone backgrounds or whatever. it makes us feel like we're not good enough for you, especially if we're your girlfriend; then we feel as though even though you're dating us, you would drop us in an instant for a shot with one of those models. just something to think about. |
She may be a bit angry but that is okay. Anger is an emotion and you can turn that to your advantage. You can say any number of things back but if I was you I would explain why I have a half naked model on my background. Be respectful and try to make it seem like you were appreciating beauty and not just oogling a hottie. Or you could get "angry" back and say something like "It isn't about her looks it is about her past. She started out as a pro-wrestler! Yet Did you know that she was on Dancing with the Stars? Did you know that she was one of the few women to get a Perfect 30? Thats a 10 from all of the judges! I keep her there to remind me that just because your known for one thing... doesn't mean you can't be great at another." Or you could play it this way "Yeah, I keep her picture there because she inspires me. I met her one time a few years back. Did you know that she has suffered from seizures in the past? Yeah, well she has. But did you know that she was on Dances with the Stars? Etc.. blah"
You get the point.
| So Close wrote: | | My profile has stacy keibler(hottest chick imo) in a bikini as the background...nothing nekkid, but half naked I guess. Should I change it? I always thought you wanted to make other chicks jealous...hmm. |
Change it to a less provocative picture of her. Then explain why you have her up there in a blog. And not the "I thought she was hot cause her boobies are nice" explaination. That way you can have your hottie pic AND you can reap benefits from it too.
Atleast that would be a decent way to go with it for me.
Oh and remember, this is not lying. YOu now KNOW that she did all these things. (Yes, they ARE true.) And who isn't inspired by a woman who has a history of seizures dancing a perfect 10?
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| Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 1:57 am Post subject: Re: oh god...is she pissed at me, or jealous of others? nake |
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| EvoJ wrote: | | So Close wrote: | | hey, i just looked at your profile, and if you want some advice from a girl, i can tell you another thing, but don't take it the wrong way, because i'm just trying to be useful :p girls really hate it when guys have pictures of half-naked models all over (like on your profile) on their walls or cell phone backgrounds or whatever. it makes us feel like we're not good enough for you, especially if we're your girlfriend; then we feel as though even though you're dating us, you would drop us in an instant for a shot with one of those models. just something to think about. |
She may be a bit angry but that is okay. Anger is an emotion and you can turn that to your advantage. You can say any number of things back but if I was you I would explain why I have a half naked model on my background. Be respectful and try to make it seem like you were appreciating beauty and not just oogling a hottie. Or you could get "angry" back and say something like "It isn't about her looks it is about her past. She started out as a pro-wrestler! Yet Did you know that she was on Dancing with the Stars? Did you know that she was one of the few women to get a Perfect 30? Thats a 10 from all of the judges! I keep her there to remind me that just because your known for one thing... doesn't mean you can't be great at another." Or you could play it this way "Yeah, I keep her picture there because she inspires me. I met her one time a few years back. Did you know that she has suffered from seizures in the past? Yeah, well she has. But did you know that she was on Dances with the Stars? Etc.. blah"
You get the point.
| So Close wrote: | | My profile has stacy keibler(hottest chick imo) in a bikini as the background...nothing nekkid, but half naked I guess. Should I change it? I always thought you wanted to make other chicks jealous...hmm. |
Change it to a less provocative picture of her. Then explain why you have her up there in a blog. And not the "I thought she was hot cause her boobies are nice" explaination. That way you can have your hottie pic AND you can reap benefits from it too.
Atleast that would be a decent way to go with it for me.
Oh and remember, this is not lying. YOu now KNOW that she did all these things. (Yes, they ARE true.) And who isn't inspired by a woman who has a history of seizures dancing a perfect 10?
EvoJ |
LOL. From bottom up...her reply is at top
lol okay if you have a girlfriend i definitely wouldn't recommend rambling on about how amazing some super-hot chick is to her, so it's good that you're getting it out with me haha! that is pretty impressive.
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Date: Sep 20, 2007 9:27 PM
Hah! And you call yourself useful? sheesh 
Weeeeeeel, guess what? Thanks for being upfront you got character, kid hah. yeah, again, respect. That's 2 points for you lol
Hmm...I see what you mean...but I definitely wouldn't drop you(females) in a second for a model, I'm huge on trust as character, etc.
About stacky keibler(the picture), did you know her past? She started out as a pro-wrestler! Yet Did you know that she was on Dancing with the Stars? Did you know that she was one of the few women to get a Perfect 30? Thats a 10 from all of the judges. Just because you're known for one thing, doesn't mean you can't be great at other things Did you know she suffered from seizures in the past? Yet she got a perfect score on dances with the stars
~So close
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Date: Sep 19, 2007 10:01 PM
hey, i just looked at your profile, and if you want some advice from a girl, i can tell you another thing, but don't take it the wrong way, because i'm just trying to be useful :p girls really hate it when guys have pictures of half-naked models all over (like on your profile) on their walls or cell phone backgrounds or whatever. it makes us feel like we're not good enough for you, especially if we're your girlfriend; then we feel as though even though you're dating us, you would drop us in an instant for a shot with one of those models. just something to think about. |
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| Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 2:47 pm Post subject: |
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Well she doesn't seem angry at all anymore does she? And she has brought up the topic of girlfriends and quite a few other things. Congratz.
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| Posted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 6:35 pm Post subject: |
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| EvoJ wrote: | Well she doesn't seem angry at all anymore does she? And she has brought up the topic of girlfriends and quite a few other things. Congratz.
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I don't need to be spoon fed, do I? :X |
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lol, sorry guy. Didn't mean to sound condecending. I was just glad to see it went well for you.
My bad,
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| EvoJ wrote: | lol, sorry guy. Didn't mean to sound condecending. I was just glad to see it went well for you.
My bad,
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Oh, no, not at all
I was about to post asking for what I should do next, but then I thought to myself "I don't need to be spoon fed"...so I stopped myself |
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| i think it's good to make them jealous of real girls, not that stacy keibler isn't, but if you had a picture of you standing next to a girl or even better holding a hot girl in a bar or at a party that would work better. Due to celeberties being who they are it's deemed more a "fantasy" then reality. She is going to think you are thinking about someone else when you are with her or fantasize about someone else. If this makes any sense. it's psychology 101 |
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| doc1983 wrote: | | i think it's good to make them jealous of real girls, not that stacy keibler isn't, but if you had a picture of you standing next to a girl or even better holding a hot girl in a bar or at a party that would work better. Due to celeberties being who they are it's deemed more a "fantasy" then reality. She is going to think you are thinking about someone else when you are with her or fantasize about someone else. If this makes any sense. it's psychology 101 |
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