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imanewbie
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 Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 6:54 am Post subject: No matchable girl :p |
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I was bored at home since it is damm Christmas time, everybody goes home and so on. Since I came back to my home country Im stuck on the following problems:
*All my friends, and I really mean all, are with gfs
*There are no good parties since universities are out, well I really like uni parties, fucking cheap and less crowded and usually in open environments so smoke does not kill me :p
*Iīm single :p
I have been looking around but I couldnīt find a girl which match my "standards" I mean I was unable to find a girl which really turned me on. Point is, Ive lived alone abroad, I speak 3 languages, got my bachelor almost done at age of 22 (5 years course), got a black belt in a martial art, got a advanced graduation in another, ive seen life in europe and Im stuck back to south america. I talk with this girls on parties and at the club and after like 5 minutes I want to hit them with a baseball bath, it sort of Ive grown and acquired a wider vision of the world and I canīt find a matchable pair. Seems to me this people are from provinces, I mean they know nothing about nothing, this girls havenīt opened a newspaper in ages and as their are in the 20's few they think they know all about the freaking world out there!
Well this is the basical draw of the situation Im looking for some ideas. Dunno what I'm going to do  |
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Ka
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Most PUA's reach this point, you have become worldly and social and have raised your standard for women to match your better self now.
The more educated, the more well socially versed, and the more you see of the world the less women will match your criteria.
Basically youll be left setting your personality standards lower in alot of situations as a girl who has a great personality and very attractive looks is a rarity.
Id suggest trying bigger cities or more affluent places. If your already doing this the only thing i can tell you is move someplace were the women experience more of life and other cultures. |
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Fratguysargesbest
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| just because you are well traveled and well schooled doesn't mean you are automatically attractive to women. |
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imanewbie
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| Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 2:44 pm Post subject: |
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Id suggest trying bigger cities or more affluent places. If your already doing this the only thing i can tell you is move someplace were the women experience more of life and other cultures. |
My city has around 2 million people counting sorounding. and well, south america is definitly not a place to find women more experienced in life. |
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Valence
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You need to hit up business districts during the day.
Educated, professional women.
Run day game at lunch time. I know there are some gems there. Bring a strong game though, they will test you. |
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imanewbie
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| Valence wrote: | You need to hit up business districts during the day.
Educated, professional women.
Run day game at lunch time. I know there are some gems there. Bring a strong game though, they will test you. |
Man the problem is Im 22, forgot to moention before. Economically Im not interesting  |
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Valence
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Ka
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| Fratguysargesbest wrote: | | just because you are well traveled and well schooled doesn't mean you are automatically attractive to women. |
I find myself having to explain things to you that others seem to find as given...
He was just saying that because of his new veiws and experience hes having trouble finding someone who is as cultured as he is...he never said anything about expecting women to like him more because of it.
He was just stateing his disapointment in the quality of the womens personalities of whom he does meet, compared to his own personality. |
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AK47
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| well there should b some upscale clubs, which ahve higher age limit and and usually with age women get 'more interesting' so they can meet ur standards and what not, or just go for cougars, older hb who are looking to have some fun with younger guys and r usually more intimidating and stuff |
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Valence
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| Quote: | | just because you are well traveled and well schooled doesn't mean you are automatically attractive to women. |
There are attraction switches that are switched with these two things. It may not be enough, but it certainly helps. |
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imanewbie
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| AK47 wrote: | | well there should b some upscale clubs, which ahve higher age limit and and usually with age women get 'more interesting' so they can meet ur standards and what not, or just go for cougars, older hb who are looking to have some fun with younger guys and r usually more intimidating and stuff |
Im 22 almost ou of university. in desperate need of a job (got back to home country 3 weeks ago and no one seems to be hiring in christmas time :p)
Iīve set up to go out with this girl I was hanging out before I moved abroad, she accepted with no deal, still I think she has something missing, she is a HB 7.5~8 depending on POV, still seems not right. I think the huge problem is she does not confront me, man it sucks when seomeone agress with most things you say :p I got a sort of strong personality and IMHO hers disappears when we are together. I think she does to please me but still it sucks |
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