Hey,

I heard many people saying you can get your girl back by no contact rule.
Do you guys really beilive in that?
And if that is the case,after that "no contact" period if your ex doesnt text you at all,should you text her or wait for her?



Thanks a lot !

No contact rule is meant for the dumpee to move on.

In 30 days you'll be on to better things and she'll either have contacted you or you won't care anymore.

It is not some magic pill for getting an ex back.

That's certainly broad... Depends on the girl and how close you are.

No contact doesn't do anything if she's not invested in you and doesn't care.

Think of it this way... Remember the ugly fat girl in high school who had a crush on you and once in a while you'd say hi or give her the time of day, just to make her feel good?

Think about how much you'd care if she decided to 'freeze you out'.

You wouldn't give a flying fuck.

It's all about context, and how attracted she is to you, and what your connection is like.

The no contact rule is implemented for guys to have alone time to return to the guy that were before meeting the girl because that was the guy that got them the girl in the first place.

Guys get in relationships, they develop emotions, and turn into a new guy that wasn't the guy that got them the girl. So the girls leaves them because she can no longer recognize the guy she once fell for it. Emotionally he is someone else. She can even feel like she's cheating on the old you by being with the new you. A woman looking at you for what you are, not who you are.

So after a month or so of no contact it creates the impression that you're off to being the guy you once were. You're no longer holding on, you're no longer begging, and you're not longer emotionally dependent on another person for your happiness. She's allowed time to reflect and you're allowed to rebuild. This can create curiosity on part of the women. She'll begin to wonder if they can she once fell for is back (because she still wants him he's just no longer there) and she may text or call to find out.

Heres an old thread I was on in which you can see it in action for yourself.

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What if i felt better after 4 days?
I texted her yesterday after 4 days of no contact.I am preety much over her,but did i do a good thing or?
Should i text her like once a week or so?

If you were "over here" you would not feel a need to text her. So you're fooling yourself. Feeling good one day doesn't mean you've returned to the guy you once were. It just means you're having a good day.

And in no contact you're suppose to let her contact you.

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Oh okay.