haha It'll come along the way man you're progressing really good, it's ok that blow out these girls because once you have the right qualities and characteristics the right girl will come along and make you happy, just keep working on it man don't stop you're getting close man.[/b]

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DAY 15: being the socia guy.
Getting my visa for Brazil and hanging out.

Hey guys. Here's a quick post to tell you what happened today. I have not truely been sarging but tried to be as social and dominant as possible. From now on, I won't write about all my social interactions since I'm getting a lot of them (I want to improve my conversation skills)... I'll only write about my interactions with HB.

Getting my visa.
Early February I'm leaving Paris to go to São Paulo. I went to the Brazilian consulate in Paris to give all the papers I needed to provide. I felt good. I took the bus, said a manly hello to the bus driver, I was the man in that damn bus, it felt good. Then I took the train to Paris. I got into the consulate and while I gave all the papers, I spoke Portuguese, maintained eye contact with the employee and was social.

Hanging out in Paris.
The consulate was next to the Champs Elysées so I went there just to have a walk and maybe try some approaches. Truth is women in Paris seem to be on a damn pedestal higher than the Eifel Tower... I have to confess... I am not ready to sarge in Paris... this city seems to have a crazy effect on girls... HB5 behave like HB7, HB7 behave like HB9... I stopped to grab something to eat. I had a great interaction with the cashier. Then I got into several store in the avenue and saw Gaël Monfils (French tennis player) hanging out with a HB9... Since I was leaving the store and he was entering it, it would have been weird to go back and speak to him... Plus I did not want to be the annoying guy. I've never seen so much famous people in my life... The Game is full of surprise.



Being social in malls.
Since I had a lot of spare time, I went to the mall and asked several questions to the employees working in the store... A few weeks ago, I would not have enjoyed it... but now I can't walk in a place without at least trying to be social. Then I came back home and went out again to go to another mall where I approached two girls for directions, I wanted to do more but they were not my type... That's not an excuse... but it's still hard for me to game girl I don't like. I know I should practice though... Yet I'm really happy since I had no AA at all and was really confident... I just went for it. Every time I got into a store, I've been social and friendly with the employee and it pays:

What I've learned:
- Everyday social interactions are good: it makes me feel confident, happy and people are nicer with me... I can get more from them.
- I'm taking my Game to a new level... I can feel I'm achieving something... I'm being social, I'm being a man, I'm more relaxed...

I hope results will come soon but I really think I'm in the right tracks. Tomorrow, not only will I practice day game, but I will also begin night game since I'm invited to a party. I'll keep you updated.

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DAY 16: first night game session.
Number closing the most incredible girl of the party.

Wow... Yesterday I went to a birthday party. That's simple I knew nobody except Rusty, the friend who invited me. That was my first try in night game (if we can call that night game).

Still on day game.
Obviously, the party was at night, but I went out during the day to practice a little. I had several great interactions with store's employees and people in general. Somehow, I ended in a student campus and approached two sets to ask directions: a 4-set and a 2-set. That was the first time I opened a 4-set but it went really well. For the two approaches, I was not shy at all, I was confident and relaxed but only asked for direction. Good news is: I can easily open for direction... Bad news is: I still don't know how to go further. Whatever, I'll work on Day Game later (and probably use routines or go direct).

Enjoying night game.
8pm: time to meet Rusty and to go to the bar where the party is.

ABOUT THE PARTY.
It was a birthday party of a friend of Rusty's. Since I told him I wanted to practice night game, he got me invited (thanks buddy). It was an all-you-can eat buffet with music so that people can dance. When I got there, I didn't know anybody but I was in a really good state of mind.

INTRODUCING ME.
Rusty introduced me to the girl celebrating her birthday. I KINOed her while kissing her hello. I did the same to the other guys Rusty introduced me to. Actually, he only knew a small part of the people invited to the party. Since I decided to be THE DAMN GUY of the night, I quickly started to spontaneaously introduce myself to everyone, KINOing the girls, being cool with the guys. The recipe was simple: KINO, small interactions with everyone & confidence.

BEING COOL.
There were a lot of guys so I decided to be cool with them. I spoke with a lot of them. I knew it was important to know as many people as I could before even thinking about gaming a girl. I wanted to be the social guy who would never be by himself during the party. Guys were cool and friendly, they allowed me to DHV a lot.

LOW LEVEL.
I have to admit it, the level was very low... Yet, one of the girls was a sexy HB8 (= HB A) and another came later... a wonderful HB9 (= HB M).

MEETING HB8 A.
She was really sexy but since it was her birthday too, I did not manage to really speak with her. I only introduced myself by kissing her hello while applying KINO (= KISSNO) and only had quick interactions with her. She was the only good target though, until HB 9 M came.

MEETING HB9 M.
She was incredibly beautiful... and alone. I did a small KISSNO since I tought she came with a guy at the beginning... but that was not the case. I quickly spoke with her at the beginning but that was not enough for me.
1st try: She spent a lot of time sit at a table with other girls around her. Since I spoke with the Russian girl who was at her right, I started a conversation with her about Russia and make her leave her sit. The idea was to isolate HB M and destroy the cockblockers. At the same time, I wanted her to see that she was the only one to not have fun with me. The conversation with the Russian girl was flaking so I ejected. I failed on approaching her.
2nd try: About 15 min later, I went back to Rusty. He was speaking to another girl and I can't remember how but we started to speak about a girl that was sit at HB M's left. Since I was not introduced to her, I asked him to do so. I spoke with her and ignored deliberately my target. It was hard to introduce myself to her after that so I ejected... but I think ignoring her was a good thing...
3nd try: The former girl left her sit, another girl was now at HB M's left. I also knew her since one of the guy I spoke with introduced me to her. I noticed she left her sit so I stole it from her. I was in the right spot to finally open HB M. Wow?

THE LAST COCK BLOCKER.
As I sat down and looked at her, the birthday girl came to speak to her... Sh*t! Well actually that was okay, I was cool and listened to them speaking. She left and I started to talk.

WOW.
She was so beautiful... It was not hard at all to maintain eye contact. I engaged conversation with her and we spoke a lot about her future trip to South America and the fact I was going to Brazil. The music was loud, so I took advantage and get closer to her; I KINOed her a lot: shoulder, legs... I listened to her but lost focus some time: I broke eye contact and looked away... I wanted her to know that she had to deserve my attention. Then I ejected. I said that I wanted to go back to Rusty and that we would spoke later. I left her and she was by hersefl, at that table...

• Good points:
  - Leaving her.
  - Losing focus to make her understand she has to deserve my attention.
  - Approaching her finally!
  
  Points to improve:
  - My body language was saying that I was fully available to her... I should not have faced her.
  - I did not set a right frame of sedution... The conversation was friendly and not about seduction.

HB M COMING TO ME
I went back to Rusty... About 20 min later, she got up. I noticed it and told her that she should meet Rusty... She replied she already has been introduced to him. Sh*t... that's not good on the compliance ladder. Whatever. A few minutes later, she came back and started to speak with the two of us. Once again my attention was not entirely focused on her.

RE-FRAMING HB M.
I realized something: I had not set up a seduction/sexual frame but a friendly one. That was bad I guessed so I decided to do something about it... I wanted to know if she was reluctant to seduction frame. So I told her I like her earrings. She did not seem nervous at all... she touched her ears to remind herself which one she was wearing and told me thanks. I negged her on how strange it was that she had to touch her ears to remember them. (Don't blame me guys, I'm still an amateur).

HB M LEAVING: TIME TO NUMBER CLOSE.
30 minutes later, she was about to leave. I noticed it. She was looking for her jacket. "Oh, you're leaving?" "yes" "Oh ok" then I came back to Rusty and pretend to don't give a f**k. The magical part was that she came to me to tell kiss me good by. My KISSNO was scandalous. That was not a usual kiss to say good bye, but two kisses on her cheecks. Right after I told her we be contacts on Facebook so we could see our photos of South America... I asked her her name and so but make her undersand that would be hard to find each other. "Oh wait, I have an idea, give me you phone number, I'll send you the link to my profile". She agreed... BINGO

• Good points:
  - Getting her to come to see good-bye.
  - Getting the number.
  - KISSNO!
  
  Points to improve:
  - Poor excuse to get her number... Truth is 1) she is not from Paris and (as far as I understood it) was about to leave to her hometown and 2) she'll leave France in three weeks to South America.

WHAT TO DO NOW?
Knowing that I actually have no chance to see her again since she might not even be in Paris anymore... what can I text her aside of the url of my profile? When should I text her?

SIDE NOTE: HOW I BECAME THE PUNISHER
After the number close, some people started to act weirdly... HB A seemed suspicious and her cousin (a HB6) tried to play me... I told her my name and she asked me to guess her name. That pissed me off but I tried some name and was wrong... "Do I look like my name is ***" That's a shit test I guess... Well I was not in the mood to play so I started to spoke to a guy who were next to us... "Are you with her?" "No." "Oh Okay, what's your name by the way"... She ended by herself and ejected. I've been the punisher and it felt good.

What I've learned.
- Being the social guy is gold.
- Social Game is way easier than Day Game.
- I love KINO.
- Attraction is about giving attention and be indifferent the next second.

Questions to move on.
- What to do with her? What should I text her? When should I do it?
- How to set a seduction frame? (and not to fall in a friendly zone)? How to create a tension?

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Yooo daniel~~ I've been viewing your journal since your Day 0! Feel excited when seeing u grow every day! Keep it up! I and so many others will be happy for you as well!

I've been reading the Pick-up materials for 3 years intermittently, and I think it's time for me to stop since the more I read the more I got confused. It's about time to take action,eh? It just, my major problem is I am so terrified and uncomfortable of social rejection. Maybe I am too nice a guy that I always want to please others and lose my own personality... Sad...

Also, I have excuse for not picking up since I am still a univerdity student and shoud focus on study solely... I know it is lame but... Forget it.

Anyway!!! Keep going Daniel!! Proud of your progress! Feel like I am progressing as well reading your journel!

Thanks HappySlip! But it's too late, I've already texted her. I'll do a post about it. Hope the comunity will help me... I need it!

Actually that's my question... should I game her (even if the conditions are not favourable) or keep her as a friend? It's not too late for the latter option but I need advice

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Thanks Fuwulo, I'm happy too.

You're right about reading material... I think reading it without putting yourself out there is not a good thing... The best was to learn what is good (or isn't) is to approach. I'm not saying I approached the girls with all the material in head... That's not the case. Yet, after approaching, I'm able to see what was good and what wasn't... Plus, the more situations you get exposed to, the more comfortable you'll get. I hope that one day, all this material will become natural. Practice makes perfect.

You should not be so terrified by social rejection.
1) You will not get rejected... (I've never been rejected since I started... the worse situation is when the situation gets weird... that's all)
2) If you get rejected once... what's the big deal?
Actually the best way to avoid social rejection is to be the alpha social guy with a strong inner game. If you're the damn guy out there, people will come to you... if not, you'll feel needy and have to come to the them. We have to flip the script.

Man, I'm about to graduate from my Business School and I feel like I have wasted my time when it comes to girls... There were so many of them, easy to attract... Man I'm sure you can handle studying and gaming girls.

Anyway thanks again!

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DAY 17: texting the HB9 of the other night.
Needing advice for text game.

Hi guys, as you might know, I've number closed a girl at a birthday party.

Things to know.
Here are some info about her... I'm not sure about everything... Music was loud or I can't remember or...
- She is not from Paris (I'm from Paris) = 100% sure
- I think she's returning to her hometown (don't know when though) = 60% sure
- She's leaving France at the end of the month to go 8 months by herself in South America = 50% sure (not sure about when she's leaving)
- She's damn beautiful = 100%
- I number-closed her by saying we should be contacts on Facebook so we could see our photos of South America... I asked her family name and so but make her undersand that would be hard to find each other. "Oh wait, I have an idea, give me you phone number, I'll send you the link to my profile". She agreed...

What's new.
I asked some advice in the PUA chat and ended up by texting:
I've been told that less is more when it comes to text-game. So I sent that to her to get the info I wanted. By the way, I sent a friend request on Facebook while waiting for the text reply. She has not accepted yet. Here's the text reply.
F*ck... Is she playing me? Is this a sh*t test? Can't she remember me?

What I'm thinking about doing.
1) GO ON
- Remind her who I am...
- Get the info
- Try to see her if she's still in Paris, eject if not.

2) EJECT
- Remind her who I am
- Telling her that I finally don't need to send her a link to my profile since I found her
- Telling her later that I wanted to know if she was still in Paris because I'm to see a good friend that goes to the same university as her and she migth know her.

My reply.
Here's what I'm about to send her as a reply.
Should I be more funny? 'lol'? Should I directly explain why I asked her if she's still in Paris?

I need your help guys!

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A quick update.

I sent that text:
She replied:
I answered:
As an AFC, I would have qualified myself: I would have explained why I asked her if she was still in Paris. I did not and try to keep control. Anyway, I'll hope she'll accept my friend request.

The Game must go on!

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Oh, don't worry. I'm not in a one-itis thing. I don't care if I see her again or not. Anyway, I'm not ready for that level (I'm not being negative but realistic... I've not enough experience, if I did, I would have kiss closed her). But truth is I was kind of surprise that she ask me "Daniel who?" because:
1) I can't see how she can't remember me... we spoke, KINOed... and I got her number the day before.
2) Maybe she know several Daniel (I did not give her my number)and wanted to know which one it was... the problem with that explanation is that Daniel is not my name. It's a nickname... and my name is not that common... There is 95% of chances I'm the first **** she met.

So I think I created attraction but was not in a seduction frame at that birthday party. I should have created a sexual tension so she understood that I was not only a friendly guy. Maybe she wanted to slow me down.
That's a good one again... Thanks for your feedbacks... It really helps me... You show me in what state of mind I have to be when interacting with a target. Next time this situation occurs, I'll know what to do.

Tomorrow, I'm seeing the old HB7 friend of mine. We're going to have a drink. She has a boyfriend but I managed to KINO her a lot... I would like to focus on sexual tension to practice (I failed that part with the incredible HB9).

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Hey man, like some of a lot of people in here are saying, Props on the N-close. Really glad for you, you're making a lot of progress man. You're doing an awesome job, keep it going.

For the girl - Don't text her too much. If I can say one thing at best - It is that my text game is problebly one of my strengths. I never ever failed with it before. Though, like you see, the girl is keeping her texts short with you so she is kinda keeping it low-profile, lack of interest.

My advice for this one - show even less interest. Don't wish her have fun or something. Just say.. "Okay w/e." Don't go like all friendly to her. Be a bit of a douche, more response in her text. Trust me about it.

Nice growing mate, keep it up!
≠ LD

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Thanks man! I'm glad I made it even if there's no opportunity with her. She accepted my friend request though.
Thanks for the advice man. I won't over text a girl anymore. I'll keep it simple and short. I won't ask but demand respectfully.
Yeah, I think I failed creating a sexual tension between us. I did not tease her. I think that was a good first attempt though: I had KINO, smile and enough compliance to get the number. I'll be better next time anyway. You're right about showing her even less interest, I have to try to keep control, sending her short messages, waiting for her to make the steps.
Thanks LD! I'm going there and I won't stop.

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DAY 18: dealing with the friend zone.
Loving to play the game.

Hey guys, I'll keep it short for your comfort. This afternoon I met with the HB7,5 I used to be in love with when i was 16 (DAY 14 5-vt81510.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=60 ) . We had a drink together.

The friend zone.
I've seen a really good video about the friend zone that was posted by Hobbit get-out-of-friend-zone-afc-adam-vt60130.html It really helped me since I understood that the friend zone is all about comfort and the player zone was all about teasing. Basically, if you want a relationship with the girl, you need to find a balance between teasing and building comfort.

Here's what I've understood from AFC Adam's video:
FRIEND ZONE: you've built comfort but there's no attraction.
PLAYER ZONE: you've built attraction but no comfort.
RELATIONSHIP: you've found a balance between comfort and attraction.

My goals.
I'm clearly in the FRIEND ZONE, she is enough comfortable with me. So my goal was to build attraction today. Correct me if I'm wrong but attraction comes from giving attention at one moment, and being totally indifferent the next minute. Knowing that, here are the points I wanted to focus on:
- KINO: KINOing when she gives me what I want, stopping when not.
- Push/Pull: building rapport vs. breakin rapport, negs...
- Eye contact: maintain vs. breaking

In field.
Once again, I'm not writing everything... Don't want to make it boring for you guys. So here's the key points.

LAST DRINK.
The last time we saw each other (DAY 14 5-vt81510.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=60 ) I wanted to create attraction too. I KINOed her a lot and showed me some great IOIs. We also spoke a lot about her boyfriend being too much of a nice guy (and how that was a problem).

MY RULES.
She offered me to drive me to the mall. I refused and told her I would meet her directly there (short text messages). That might sound stupid... but having her coming to get me looks like a DLV to me. I was 5 minutes late when I got at the rendez-vous point.

ME PLAYING GAME.
I was relaxed and alpha. I was social with the cashier and even with a guy in the restrooms. I sat comfortably (leaned back) at the café and was clearly enjoying myself. The push/pull thing was awesome. We sat and started to speak. I tried to give her attention when that was interesting (KINO, eye contact, ...) and be totally indifferent the next minute. That actually worked well. I've even interrupted her several times when the conversation was not interesting to me (asking something about the shoes of another girl in the café, going to the toilets, playing with my phone). Every time I pushed her, she came back to me and try to grab my attention.

DISMISSING HER BOYFRIEND.
Last time we saw, we spoke about her boyfriend being a nice guy, how it was a problem and how she should speak to him (her idea as a result of our conversation). I was really surprised but she actually spoke to him and got confused. Indeed, last time I asked her if she was in an exclusive relationship before talking about her too nice boyfriend. She spoke about that with him, probably got confused and told him she might want a non-exclusive relationship! The guy is such a nice guy that he had not even been mad about it. lol. Anyway, she did not manage to let him know what it was all about: she needs him to stop to be the nice guy he is. She's even congratulated me on understanding that being a nice guy kills attraction.

GETTING IOIs:
She gave me a bunch of IOIs:
- Let me KINO her as hell: bottom of her back, her hands, her knees, her shoulders...
- She KINOed me back: on my hands
- She touched her hair.
- She leaned in to speak with me.
- She tried to know if I was single: she misunderstood something I said and asked me "you're seeing someone?".
- ...

BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION.
I tried to buid a sexual tension by making her imagine us having sex.
ME: *talking about 16yo teens that fuck during holiday camps (she used to do that as a summer job)* We were not like that back in the days... There was nothing like that when I was 16...
HB7,5: ahahaha *laughing*
ME: Oh, we knew each other at that time... You were not into that at that age too... nothing happened, especially between the two of us. (really bad translation from French, sorry)
HB7,5: ahaha.

THE FRAGRANCE EPISODE.
After our drink, she wanted to go to Sephora so I went with her (I've not accepted it right away). She started to check women's fragrance and I negged her on the on she likes and showed her the fragrance I loved: Viktor & Rolph's Flower Bomb. I told her that this perfume turns me on and she actually put some of it in her neck. Isn't that a damn IOI? Later in the car:
ME: It smells damn good in your car. That's the fragrance I've showed you. I love that fragrance.
HB7,5: Yeah... I'm kinda embarassed though.
ME: Embarassed... why?
HB7,5: ... (30 seconds looking at her while she was driving)
ME: I've asked why are you embarassed ... I guess you've not heard it.
HB7,5: ... I heard it, I was pretending not to...
ME: Oh you're that embarassed... You should turn right.
She was going in the wrong direction so the conversation ended here.

RECEIVING A TEXT MESSAGE.
30 minutes after being home, she sent me:
Of course I am not answering.

How I feel.
F**king good! It feels good to be in control, to be a man, to attract. Plus, the incredible HB9 has accepted my friend request on Facebook.

What I've learned.
- The push/pull technique is awesome: giving attention and being indifferent right after is really powerful.
- It's easy to lose a girlfriend when you're AFC: she dismissed so much her boyfriend. I would have never tolerated that from my ex-girlfriend.
- I love playing.

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I think shes embarrassed because shes not able to make you like her like in the good ol' days. Anyways great story now if you can do this to a stranger It'll be a different story. Keep it up AlmostPUADaniel!

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