Hi guys!! I am new to this forum and have only been gaming for about 2-3 years.

I would like to share some attraction theory (that I have discovered by myself) and a college experience where I implemented the theory.

In my experiences with really hot girls (HB8s and above), the absolute, most effective way to attract them is to come across as aloof/indifferent/uninterested as possible, but ALSO confident/sexy. My theory is that women who are not already attracted to us will NEVER become attracted to us, if we indicate that we are attracted to them FIRST- it just screams 'neediness' to them and they are REPULSED by it. It has to be the EXACT opposite. Attraction is exactly that- attraction. How can you possibly attract something by pursuing it?? it defies all logic and the meaning of 'attraction' in the first place.

Anyway here goes...

We met once in the campus grounds (she was walking into one of the buildings). I faced her (only with my head) and said “hi” (an almost blank expression on my face). Notice how I only said “hi” and nothing else. To which she (facing only with her head) replied “hey”. I then said “are you going to class?”, to which she replied “yeah” (notice the one word response= lack of interest).

Noticing this, I replied “ok. catch you later” (blank expression)…walking away and DID NOT look back at her. Well, we met the following week in the campus bar…she approached ME this time saying “hey, how are you doing?” (I was standing at the bar), to which I replied “ok” with a quiet voice, not even facing her OR looking her in the eye- I recognised it was her by her voice, so I remained aloof/disinterested. She came closer to me and said “I can’t hear you”…I backed away slightly (leaning even more against the bar) and said “I said I’m Ok” (slightly louder this time- still not facing her). She starts laughing uncontrollably (probably a combination of being intoxicated and obvious attraction). I just ignore it, and continue to drink my beer (not facing her). She eventually calms down (after about 10-15 seconds).

I look at her (facing only with my head) and ask her “are you on crack?” (bemused look on my face). She starts laughing again. Noticing this, I turn around completely, facing the bar and order another drink (not even saying anything to her). She approaches the bar and stands RIGHT NEXT TO ME. I continue to ignore her. She taps my shoulder. I say “what?” (facing only with my head, blank expression).

She says “what’s your name” (body fully facing me, playing with her hair). I reply “” (another one word response), without facing her this time. This time I walk away from her and proceed towards the dance floor saying “see ya” (facing only with my head) and begin walking away…she grabs my arm and asks “where are you going” (pouting, body fully facing). I reply “to dance”. She replies “awesome..I love dancing. can you dance???” (eyes wide with excitement, big smile).

I reply “obviously” (facing only with my head, rolling eyes). Now, I push her away from me and continue walking not looking back. Later she grabs me (more drunk by this point) and starts trying to dance with me and things took off from there. We danced, made out and went back to her/her friend’s flat and had sex and became 'fuck buddies'.

The moral of this story here is that this girl was NOT into me at all from the beginning, but became more and more attracted the more aloof/disinterested in her I was. This is PROOF that this is not bullshit and that it actually works- at least it worked for me.

My theory about attraction with the opposite sex is this:

Women play hard to get/aloof/disinterested etc, because they KNOW how ATTRACTION works: polar opposite forces like magnetism- one chases, the other withdraws. They know that guys become more and more attracted to them (chase) the more they play 'hard to get' (withdraw). As a result, the average AFC becomes OBSESSED with her. Why is this? because the attraction grows stronger and stronger the more she withdraws. So yeah....if you play them at their own game and know how to adjust your body language to convey BOTH confidence AND disinterest (but you still need to talk to them), you will ATTRACT them much much easier as you have now reversed the roles of chasing/withdrawing.


Here are some of the ways that you can convey confidence/sexiness/disinterest in hot girls and 'put them in a trance' with your speech/body language:

With your speech

1. Give her SHORT responses to questions- the shorter the better and try to keep it vague as possible.

2. Never give her compliments whatsoever. You should be expecting compliments from HER!! She will NOT be used to this and it will make HER work HARDER to impress YOU.

3. Tease her as much as possible in a playful/cocky/aloof manner, but DO NOT insult.

4. All of your speech should be slow, smooth, sexy, deep (as possible) and loud enough for her to hear. Do not talk to her with a weak voice- it shows weakness/insecurity. Your voice should be MASCULINE as possible.

With your body language

1. Do NOT face her completely EVER (with your body), just turn your head towards her. This includes the approach- approach from the side (head facing only), NEVER from the front OR back- front is needy as fuck and back is just downright 'creepy'. ALMOST every amateur/AFC does this and it is an ATTRACTION KILLER from the get go. Another tip: if she refuses to make eye contact with you on the approach, tell her "she's being a rude little girl" or "turn her body towards you" (at the shoulders)- this will show major dominance/confidence. She will never expect a guy to have the "balls" to do that and it will likely make her open up to you- it has worked for me almost every time it happened.

2. Lean away from her ALWAYS. If the music is too loud and you cannot hear her or she cannot hear you, pull her into YOU or signal HER to speak in YOUR ear or to come CLOSER to YOU. Do NOT lean in to her EVER. After you have finished speaking to her, push her away, gently (if you pulled her in). This makes them go wild with excitement. If you are sitting down on a chair, lean back on it (if possible). If you are standing against the bar, lean onto it. Never move closer to her or lean into her. If she leans into you, lean back slightly. If she faces towards you (with her body), face away from her (with your body). Getting her to lean into you is also the BEST way to test compliance with her, as well as putting your hand out to lead her to the dance floor. If she refuses to lean into you, push her further away (playfully) and turn your body away from her- watch her reaction.

3. Do not smile at her (with teeth showing) as it signifies submissiveness/weakness. If fact it’s best to maintain an almost blank expression, with a barely noticable grin, so as not to look creepy, but totally unimpressed by her.

4. If she gives you ANY signs of disinterest whatsoever after the opener/approach or during the conversation, turn away from her (with your body, with a slight grin on your face) and WAIT for HER to talk to YOU or catch YOUR attention- do NOT start talking to her again. If she doesn't, walk away. They absolutely LOVE this. It shows you are NOT NEEDY more than anything. Some girls are just shy and expect you to talk to them more first before they will open up, so this will not ALWAYS work.

5. If she “shit tests” you, look away and up (rolling your eyes) or look away with a very slight grin on your face. Do not SAY anything. This makes her wonder "WHAT THE FUCK JUST HAPPENED??!". It lets her know WITHOUT ANY DOUBT that you are a MAN who is confident, non-needy and sexy as fuck who ALSO understands women and doesn't take them seriously. Likewise, if she starts actling like a 'bitch', call her out on it with CONFIDENCE- do NOT allow her "shit tests"/"bitchiness" to weaken your "frame" whatsoever. For example, look her in the eye and say she's being "childish" or "unattractive" and turn away from her (rolling your eyes or grinning slightly). This will PUT A SPELL ON HER. NEVER take her seriously.

6. Never touch her first! Let me repeat that…NEVER TOUCH HER FIRST!! In fact, DO NOT touch HER AT ALL to indicate interest. Only touch her when you are bringing her closer to you so she can hear what you have to say. Eventually, she will MOVE closer to YOU (subconsciously) so she can always hear you, because you have signalled (with your body language) that you are NOT moving closer to her (not needy). This is pure magic. If she touches you, DO NOT return it or acknowlege it- act like you didn't notice it. If she grabs you on the arm/shoulder or hugs you (a big IOI), push her away- gently and playfully. If she gives you any IOIs whatsoever, do NOT escalate physically by touching/kinoing her- seriously don't. This will make HER WANT to touch YOU even more.

7. Never underestimate walking away first, saying “cya around” than waiting for HER to walk away from YOU. YOU should ALWAYS be the first to walk away from HER. This also applies to ending the conversation first before her. This is HOW you get HER to CHASE YOU.

8. If she tries to impress you in any way, reply “cool…” or "that's nice", with a “poker face” expression on your face (with a SLIGHT grin), facing only with your head (not your body). Never show her you are impressed by anything she says- don't give a wide grin, raise eyebrows or widen eyes etc- ALWAYS maintain a "poker face", almost "bored" expression with a very slight grin. This will make her WORK EVEN HARDER to IMPRESS YOU.

9. When making eye contact ALWAYS give her more eye contact when talking to her and less when she is talking to you. When you break eye contact, do it to the side and turn your head SLOWLY. You should give 70% eye contact when talking to her and 30% when she is talking to you. When you do give her eye contact, the eyes should be slightly narrowed, but don't squint and also DO NOT widen your eyes or raise your eyebrows in response to anything she says- this conveys interest/excitement/submissiveness.

10. Slow down every movement as much as possible- when you take a drink, gesture with your hands to make a point etc. When standing- your posture should be straight as possible, chest out, shoulders back, hands by side etc. I'm sure most of you already know this. You should also ALWAYS look relaxed as possible. This will start to make her nervous around you and seriously multiply the 'sexual tension'.


If you follow all of the above, the girl will eventually want to jump your bones and you will notice this with the obvious IOIs. The more drunk the girl- the more it will affect her and 'put her under your sexual spell'. You should also ONLY escalate physically/sexually when you know IT IS ON without a doubt i.e the most obvious IOIs that she wants your dick in her- she grabs you/starts caressing you/kisses you/eyefucks you etc. Warning: this may ONLY work with the hottest women (with low/average self esteem) and will likely backfire with less attractive girls or women with very high self-esteem.

All of the above should be executed playfully/seductively and with a slight grin on your face- never look serious or creepy. Your body language should be BOTH disinterested/aloof AND confident/sexy (think james bond) 90% of the time. I have had around 40 'same night lays'/'one night stands' using these techniques with HB8s and HB9s with them in one year alone, gaming them in clubs/bars (and I am very skinny/average looking)...so the results (for me) speak for themselves. Let me also make something abundantly clear: it DOES NOT really matter WHAT YOU SAY to the girl- but you should focus on asking them questions/teasing them. However, as long as don't come across as some rapist/psychopath, you will get results. By results, I am talking about girls eyefucking you, or grabbing your crotch on the dancefloor, not agreeing to give you their number- this is NOT results.

I guarantee that if you follow these points, you will have an endless harem of hot women CHASING you!!

Alot of the guys here will disagree with these methods, but believe me they DO work.

Good luck, fellow PUAs and happy gaming/sarging!