So back in May i met this girl during class 2 weeks before summer vacation (I'm in college) and we started talking. We had small talk many times, but the only useful information i got from her was where she lives, where she's going for vacation and her Facebook page. Nothing personal, looking back on it.

At the time i had gleaned over a bit of PU material, particularly MM and SS. My knowledge at the time was very brief, yet enough to make me overconfident. I made several mistakes. First i tried to build comfort and attraction at the same time, rather than in order. In addition i was pretty AFC about it, bragging, doing very needy things such as always sitting next to her in class and not talking, telling dumb jokes to get a laugh (2 major ones in fact, one in June and one in July, first one got me a nice-try chuckle, and the second one netted no response and was my last communique with her).

Reviewing my performance now that i have read more on MM (i dropped SS, it just wasn't for me) i realized that i telegraphed too much interest, in addition her comfort and attraction levels weren't particularly high when i started doing so. I made many more newbie mistakes in tonality and body language. In total, i crashed and burned and it took me 2 months to realize i did so.

Unfortunately she infected me with one-itis before we parted, now i can't get her out of my head. I gave it some thought, and I'm gonna cure my one-itits by making her my first target for gaming. I want to make her a friend so that i have an avenue to game her once my PU skills improve. Essentially recreating and preserving a connection so that I may be able to game her at a later time of my own choosing. Currently i have one month until the college quarter begins, or rather 3 weeks at home, plus a "zero" week before class starts. Facebook is my only communication method with her, i want to reestablish a comfortable level of rapport before the zero week starts, then meet up during that week and hang out. I'm considering sending her a PM with an opinion opener on an abstract topic but I'm not sure what to write or if it would work.

I need serious help.

**On a funny note, I'm getting AA in the comfort of my own home, not even being remotely near her.

Unfortunately she infected me with one-itis before we parted, now i can't get her out of my head. I gave it some thought, and I'm gonna cure my one-itits by making her my first target for gaming. I want to make her a friend so that i have an avenue to game her once my PU skills improve.

Making her your 'friend' does not cure one-itits, it makes things worse. Why would you want to be in the friend zone when that is the one place that insures you don't get laid?

You pinpointed where the mistakes were made, now work on your 'inner-game' and learn how to become an Alpha. Once you have achieved the Alpha level, THEN maybe you can retry to game her.

Just an fyi...I don't recommend building a comfortable level of rapport with women, that's boring...and 'boring' does not equal attraction. Rapport is good for business/work relations. When it comes to attracting women, you need mystery, excitement, tension, drama and a hint of danger.

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Holy Shit...

Man get your head up. Stop looking in outer game! I'm not a MM hater, but you are OVERANALYZING things. Don't can any lines from MM, as it is pretty similar to SS. There's no need to microcalibrate every bit of value adjustment, and really you forget about what is important.

Just enjoy yourself, have fun, and relax. Because really, everything else is overrated.