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lennon
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 Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 4:48 pm Post subject: Need Help 1st REAL SUCCESS as PUA! In uncharted waters now! |
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Ok, I am FLYING RIGHT NOW!! After 7 months of frustration, getting ripped apart by hb's, rejection and almost giving up I gamed a hb10+ who is a young Christie Brinkley look a like using the techniques I was taught. I'm stuck though, I got some IOI's from her. She sent me 3 messages in succession.
hb10+ :You have a really intense personality. Your emails...I can't tell if they are serious or if you are being playful; they could go either way. Do you have a name? Mine is (hb's name). You are different than all the other guys on here (YESSSS!!!LOL) which is a good thing.
Then she sent me a friend request.
Then she wrote me again to say,hb10+: By the way, I don't think your pictures are crappy, I think they're cute and you have a really pretty smile. WINK
This is a girl who implied in her initial response to my negging that I wasn't good enough for her  ! I just accepted her friend request but have not responded to her yet. Any advice on where to take it now? I've never gotten such positive results from PUA stratagies before so I'm in uncharted waters here. ANY ADVICE PLEASE!!! -LENNON |
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Hobbit
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| This is the girl who destroyed your self esteem? And good job, get her on the phone and arrange a day 2. |
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lennon
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| Hobbit wrote: | | This is the girl who destroyed your self esteem? And good job, get her on the phone and arrange a day 2. |
NOOO, this is not the same girl that was so abusive towards me at all. This girl blows that bitch AWAY! I was just saying initially I negged this one and she implied subtly that I wasn't good enough for her. SO again I ask, Any Advice??? Like I said, I'm in uncharted waters here... |
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Hobbit
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| Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 11:57 pm Post subject: |
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I'd suggest you post this question in Ask J Smooth's about online questions thread.
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lennon
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| Hobbit wrote: | I'd suggest you post this question in Ask J Smooth's about online questions thread.
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Thanks for the advice bro and the link -Lennon |
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lennon
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| Hobbit wrote: | I'd suggest you post this question in Ask J Smooth's about online questions thread.
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thanks for the link bro -Lennon |
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lennon
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| lennon wrote: | | Hobbit wrote: | I'd suggest you post this question in Ask J Smooth's about online questions thread.
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thanks for the link bro -Lennon |
Ok, I asked J smooth and all he basically told me was to get her IM name, build comfort, and get her number???? OK, who doesn't know that...I want to know WHAT TO SAY, HOW TO REACT TO HER FLATTERY, not how to going about getting to the next level, I already know that! |
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8ball.uk
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It sounds like you want someone else to pick her up for you dude... Do you not have any inner game/personality? I don't mean that in an offensive way, so don't take it as such. Its just you've been given sound advice by J Smooth, short of someone telling you exactly what to type to her there's not much more help we can give you.
I mean, feel free to get her IM and then give me your login details and I'll pretend to be you and talk to her  But I dont think thats what you actually want.
Even so, if I were in your position, I'd get her to add you on IM (not vice versa, I like to make them chase), then as soon as she adds you say hey really quickly, then say you're going out to do something (maybe DHV) and either go out or just block her for a bit/set your status to away and ignore her (keep her waiting). Then when you come back I often go with something like "I'm back! Did you miss me? Aww, you did! You're so sweet, but dont get too clingy". Then I'd fluff talk for a couple of minutes, not long at all just like the basic ''how are you'' ''what did you get up to today'' bullshit, then I'd say something like; "this is dumb, we're doing all this talking to each other but we're not really learning about each other at all. I wanna get to know you properly. I've got an idea..." - then I either run the cube on her, ask her rapport questions (theres a thread with 6 great ones on these forums somewhere), play the 3-second-answer game (anothe post on this forum somewhere) or just any other cold read/rapport routine/game depending on how I feel. I think this kind of thing would work really well with the girl you're talking about as she seems like she already feels connected to you, build on that comfort and DHV as much as possible. All the time just throw in the odd negs. Also, try not to be online all the time, if you're online and she's online and you're not talking, thats normally bad, keep yourself scarce so she'll keep on wanting more.
Other than that, use your brain mate  good luck |
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