 Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:38 am Post subject: |
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First of all, every single message you send her is asking a question until you suggest to trade numbers. It was too interview-like.
And then after all the questions, you show little interest when she opens up to you. She is actually trying to gain rapport from you by saying that she's creative, has an inventive mind, and is into choreography. You respond by saying "You must be flexible, I hope you have a wild side, What's your number?" It's like you pretend to be interested in the conversation until she starts to show some interest back, then you automatically ignore her most important message of the interaction, say that you hope she's wild and ask for her number. No congruency there, my friend.
Lastly, there is no flirting or building of attraction. You talked about favorite colors and music, that's about it.
Take a step back from the conversation and look at it as a viewer from the outside...why would she want to give you her number? What reasons does she have?
You were in the game when you were talking about music, because she was interested in music. You were even more in the game when she started telling you things she was interested in. You should have asked her about the choreography. Instead, you blew yourself out when you randomly brought up the wild side/phone number...kinda came out of left field.
In my experiences, the two best ways to get a number off the net would be to make her laugh until she gives it to you OR take the conversation a more intimate route.
Best of luck to you bro. Keep fighting the good fight! |
