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I think the beauty of the indirect opener is that it buys you time during which you can create attraction. .
Here is the thing, you dont need to create anything, specially not attraction. Pick up is about being not doing. Be the naturally attractive guy and she will be attracted...you dont have to do anything to create it. This is a bit of an advanced concept and many people reading it will probably think im crazy and thats ok. Keep going out and having fun and the truth of this will hit you one day.
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Direct approaches leave you with just the approach to generate attraction, which would seem to make it almost entirely about body language and tone over a very short period of time. If she is attractive and gets approached regularly, she has her bitch shield up, then its hard to believe that you stand a better chance having just these tools at your arsenal, than with having the opportunity to demonstrate that you're an interesting, well-spoken, social person (even if we discount the idea of social value).
Uhh, not sure what your talking about.

Going direct doesnt limit you or the ability of the women to be attracted to you. Direct is attractive! And yes, while body language and tone does come into play their certenly not your only tools. If you have your inner game all "down" (for lack of a better term) then you will come accross as a cool, confident, sexual guy...all attractive. Plus we have the Golden Rule I spoke of...
Bascially, direct or not, you can still show that your a well-spoken, social person whos interesting even if she has her bitch shield up. All you have to do is plow through!
She tell you to fuck off? Shes just playing hard to get
She slaps you (trust me, it wont happen)? Shes just using kino on you
She turns her back to you? Shes just looking for her GF she came with to let her know shes going home with you tonight!
Although humerious and extreme, the above are good examples of what kinda midset to have. Plow through any negativity you get and dont take it personal. Shes not rejecting you because she hasn't had time to get to know the real you yet. Just ignore her negativity and give her a chance to get to know you.