Night begins at 11:30 at a providence, RI. club with my wing and I. The place is bumping tonight but the dance floor is kind of small but they make up for it with the large outside smoking area. I don't normally smoke outside of bars or clubs but when I am out I utilize cigs as a tool to talk to women outside seeing as sometimes its difficult to talk in a loud environment.

So me and wing walk in order drinks and see 2 guys we know, we walk up shake hands with a manly hug and really stretch the social proof. After this I go to the dance floor to "check out the bar". (Note that I follow the mystery method for nightgame and a lot of tom torero type daygame material.) So if I see a good looking women I'll only glance at her, I'm always smiling and giving my wing almost undivided attention rather than stare at these girls like prey.

My mission for the next half hour is to social proof this room! I see 3 girls taking pictures I jump right In front (in classy way) and they put a sombrero on me and we take pics together then I move on. Next idea I have is tell some profesional camera guy that Im sure works for thr club to take me and wings pic. He flashes camera with a mega bulb and Instantly whole room notices... nice. Throughout the night I will make use of any light sources to stick out in dark club such as my florescent hat, wrist bands and shirts, its my signature peacock. Another routine I do is I wave the bouncers and tell them to shine their flashlights on me then breakout In a dance when they do. Its corny and always gets a laugh but it literally puts the spotlught on me. These methods are social proofing the room fast and I'm getting more and more into the coveted ZONE. Now before I try to approach women I take one last measure to proof the place in the most unusual of all places.... the bathroom. Seeing how I'm not used to opening sets what better place to speak my mind while taking a piss so when the bathroom is crowded I'll say things like "nice cock ring" "id shake your hand but theres a dick in mine already" and to the towel man I'll say things like " you've seen my dick more than my girl" this type of humor is always hilarious between men and at the very least I won't have to worrry about these guys AMOGing me in the near future.

Now that I socially proofed the room as much as possible next is the pre-selection phase. I get an eye invitation from a cute HB7 so on the fly I come up with this routine i call the 'Take my photo routine':
You: hey can you take me and wings photo?
HB: yeah sure!
(Takes pic)
You: umm not too bad but its crooked! how much have you drank tonight!? Take another quick one...
(Takes pic)
You: aww much better
(Quickly and obviously capture a pic of you and target and make some akward face so she will want you to delete it.)
HB: ahhhh! Delete it! Lol
You: oh you look great in this pic (teasing) okay fine ill delete it if we take a better pic
(Dont wait for permission immediately grab her around the waist and pull her in and take a really good pic. Like one you would show your grandparents, you want to show her you guys look good together. She will almost always do a quick pose like putting her head on your cheek i would show a pic but dont know if thats against the rules(???)
You: wow i look good in this pic as usual....
(This routine has been field tested it works just make sure you get kino just dont go overnoard and if you dont take the obvious pic first she will tell you to get your hands off of her)
always works and you end up getting a nice "

Later in the night after all my antics I was getting a lot of proximity and actually one girl flat out walked up to me and started grabbing my hands and starting convo but my convo skills suck so I sunk. Also another HB managed to get such proximity at the bar her whole body was pressed against mine against the bar LOL. I negged the shit out of her too hard and sunk again... overall good night. The club scene was not what I expected its really make it or break it in these places it seems.

Improvments: don't neg so hard
Open up mixed sets
Go for number close if even just for practice and boosted confidence

Sustain: Brass balls and social proofing
Quick wit with photo routine
Maintain high energyMy story from AFC to the coveted PUA

Nice.

I am wondering if the bouncers ever ignore your request to turn the light on you?

They can be real dicks at the best of times.

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These bouncers didn't, prob because I talk to as much staff as possible, smiling helps.

Before I go onto night #2 figure i should tell explain my background a bit. Social anxiety has always been a problem of mine and its intensified with women in general. I was a virgin till I was 21 and could in no way even talk to women unless I drank. I started having panic attacks from drinking and came upon a website that mention neil strauss's the game to help with anxiety... ever since them PUA has become a priority. I HIGHLY recommend reading Susan Jeffers Feel the fear and so it anyway it will help tremendous amounts dealing with AA (approach anxiety). Also neil strauss's Rulea of the game challenges will force you out of your shell slowly... I'm on day 9 just haven't had time to continue. Now without further ado...

Dartmouth RI, strip club night with me and a new wing tonight. We walk in social proof 2 bouncers then take our seats. Anyone who's studied about strippers knows they are hard to pick up but I was feeling confident tonight. A HB 8 walks up and I immediately neg her and her friends she's with, we get to talking and I run attraction, qualification and comfort way to fast but I still have her attention.

I go kino quick and grab her arm and massage it saying how she feels so warm then we play thumb wrestle and I hold her hand in mine. I go to let go but she curls her fingers not to (IOI) so I ask for number she says phone broke she gives email... long story short email turned out to be fake. Not yet at a strip club caliber yet but still was good practice.

Improve: learn routines for each phase.
Slow down each phase
Stop negging so much

Sustain: keep sarging stay confident

In Dartmouth, RI. at the mall with my wingman who by the way is very shy and has no real game but he's not afraid to wing me on anything and that is what a good wing is all about but if there is anyone who would like to sarge like yesterday and is in the Boston to Swansea area PM me.

So at the mall "shopping" I attempt my first true Daygame with a HB. Now the nature of Daygane is to go direct with "hey excuse me I just saw you walk by and I wanted to tell you how beautiful you are! My name is ....(insert transition)" This was really nerve racking at first, I let 2 HB slip by but I knew when I got home I would regret not doing it obsessively so I walked past a HB8 then turned around and tapped on elbow and made eye contact with smile and delivered. She was unsurprisingly very receptive like the textbook said she would be but I ejected anyway after the compliment.

Not a big day in general but definitely a giant step seeing how I would like to do mostly daygame material. Wing was too shy to do even a indirect opener, maybe he will get drunk next time when we go again, God knows I used to. Also I noticed I am less nervous when I don't drink I think alcohol has reverse effect on me.

Haven't been in the game for like 2 weeks and its really having a negative impact already, AA is coming back I need to get back to it hard. so to shock myself i start with daygame at a mall in MA. I noticed the easiest "first approach" of the day for those with AA is simply to go thru a fast food drive thru and ask the lady who hands you the food for her number. After she denies you which she will especially if you had no dialouge you will literally feel the anxiousness melt from your body its such an amazing feeling.

Daygame at Mall, mostly phone number approaches directed at hired guns once again wasn't many singles but did manage to run an indirect opinion opener on a HB9 went for number close and she says "oh bad hit". She says she was engaged with a flirty smile so who knows didn't check for ring anyway.

Nightgame in Prov. RI at a spanish nightclub. I try some minor openers but didn't run too well on one because I stopped talking another I tried the photo routine but my wing was acting so shy and tough that he refused again to help me out so we left... I'm really considering sarging alone

Memorial day weekend (Sunday) daygame was a blast! I took a new wingman to the mall and I stylelife challenge opened 3 HB's completing day 9! All approaches went well and each one opened more receptively the louder and more expressive I became. I noticed I need to continue the convo after the opinion opener has run its course, noted.

Later on the same day at night I went to my cousins wedding shower after party, had a few drinks but just a few because alcohol KILLS my game but did open a HB6 who was actually an ex gf of mine... long story short she asked me out I declined no use going thru the same bs I did the first time. After the after party we went to a nice bar that recently opened in my hometown. Nothing but beautiful women inside, I meet up with my cousins friends at a table so now its me, my wing, cousin and like 5 HBs so I was pretty pre selected and socially proofed for the night. I got into the ZONE quickly off the success of the day and started chatting with a few women took one outside and smoothly went into comfort phase leading to K-close on a HB7.

I recommend brushing up on convo skills for those who have nothing but routines up their sleeve, I personally don't use routines as much as a beginner should but Ive learned a lot of skills in convo dynamics lately. One trick is say a statement and follow it with a question, after she answers you take some word she said and turn it into a statement you can relate to then ask a question and repeat this until she is comfortable.

Home, yes you guys heard right, game at home. Bad day at work getting told a lot that I 'got a chip on my shoulder' auitting smoking is a sticking point for me but after work I come home and get attacked by my neightbors (all girls) verbally. I haven't gamed anyone in this building but there is this one girl.... so I walk up and their starting with you slammed the door this and that and say shit like 'hes cocky, arrigant and this and that.

So I sit down in front of six women and all of a sudden smiles everywhere. It was a shit test to talk to me and I played it right. The target is making rude comments and I respond with cocky funny everytime. I make a beer run to show I'm open to talk not to actually drink. I play the targets mom to show DHV without bragging and then I toss targrt my phone and say 'i don't normally bring girls with me to the bar but if your interested herez my phone'. Works like a charm.

Later on in the nightshe wqnts to hang out on the porch till 11:30. I play mysteries question kiss close and she denies the kiss so I freeze her out. Actually she's in front of me right now looking at me type so this is literally an in field report.... okay an hour later I freezed her out then she got receptive I was surprised she didn't leave she brought out a blanket and we laid. I massaged her back for about 3 mins until she started moaning then went for kiss. I got K-close then called it a night sincr there is nowhere to f close. Unusual day thanks to game it went good. Keep sarging!

Hometown nightgame tonight, me and wing go to this new bar with a dress code and the place is packed. He is designated driver tonight because I had a uneventful day so I felt like drinking.

Soon as I walk In we order drinks from a HB9 named Amanda she is a hired gun. She is the hottest girl here and their are a decent amount of HBs here. I plant social proofed seeds with small talk around the place then look at my wing he's like 'your in the zone aren't you?' Yes I WAS in the zone so I walk up to a seated 2 set w/ opinion opener and set blows open, we chat one of the girls is IOIing me but the other is giving signs of boredom. I dismiss myself hopefully re-igniting a chat later on but never do. Go outside and open my first 3 set which was all girls and all seated. We make small talk but I didn't DHV anyone or neg since I didn't have a set target. We all agree to meet at another pub around a few blocks down.

When I walk into the bounce location I head for the bathroom and just as I was walking into restroom so were the girls! They pull me inside girls restroom so I'm thinking its on, they have a fourth friend with them who I haven't met she a HB9 and she walks right up to me and kisses me once and grabs my ass. I was so in shocked at the spontaneity of this that I asked her if I could kiss her... what a bad move total typical AFC and they kicked me out the bathroom. We made small talk again after but with no set target I never moved anyone to comfort and night ended with last call soon after. Had fun I should of slowed down on my drinking and commanded the HB9 in the bathroom since it had much potential for a f close.... I think. I have to start follow M3 to the T from here on out, I have developed convo skills now I need to put them to more use than just talking.

Boardwalk, me and my wing go for a walk in very public walking area, daygame time we approach literally EVERYONE that walks by. I approach a 6 set all women with a sunglass opener I make up on the spot worked out well. Then I get ballsy and this 9 set all women with some zumba opener get smiles then dismiss. Then shaws then outside convience store overall good day.

Date tonight, we hang out on my porch first things go well. I slip into cocky funny because comfort wasn't working which is my first question... what frame should I be in for the second meeting a woman after comfort has been done???

I walk off the porch into my house and simply out the tv on and sit down with the door open, she comes in an lays down and starts talking sexual. Now we lay down and kiss so I try this technique that I use to use when I got laid a lot which is ask her out then kiss and u and sex is implied its never failed before. So I ask her out and she says no then literally gets up and walks home.
She text me at home saying she's sleepy I text her back saying how I should of kissed her more/ massagd etc... she does not respond!
What went wrong can anyone help me with this? Thanks - Rush

Daygame at two malls, with wing and I. Start off saying hello to everyone that walks past, I swear we said hello to the whole mall! First mall we go to has a lot of mall rats (young mixed set teens) who are in my book socially unapproachable. I see this single woman walks by HB9 I approach with made up indirect opener then I transition by exchanging names then go into context questions but did not go for # close.

Another mall we do less hellos but do another approach but this time did go for # but she had a borefriend. I will go # close on every approach from now on.

Pros: AA has gone way down there is no girl I won't approach. Also my improv convo skills has gotten better due to less anxiety.
Cons: Stay in sets longer, build more rapport, approach mixed and 2 sets. I need to be more DIRECT.

Nightgame with a friend from the military. A little background of this wingman is that one time he cockblocked me hard about a year ago and when I asked him why he says 'because you'll never be as good as me" He made me feel so less of a man guys it really hurt at that time so i can say that comment is my drive to beat him tonight...

We start off at a typical bar and grill he's flirting with every waitress around and getting some good laughs I'm very intimidated at first. I ruin his game by saying "see the reason I don't flirt with waitresses is the same reason I don't flirt with strippers" I had to Amog him because tonight he's a real challenge to my game. We talk to another friend (HB9) who joins the table with us and I accuse her of flirting with me I disqualify her I use verbal pre selectiin stories and dhv spikes and she is giving me IOIs. My friend notices and tries to cockblock again but doesn't do so well this time.

We change venues and go to a hotel bar a block down that just so happens to be a wedding party. We talk about game and he gives me a bunch of pointers but since he's a natural there no structure to his game. He basically uses his convo skills and humor to do situational openers, this guys good so we decide to try my approach. I walk up to this 3 set and the set goes well. I neg the target way too hard and they end up leaving but I think it was because it was obvious me and him were "trying to hard" to outgame each other.

I never thought id see this happen with him but I shook his confidence, I don't know why but he becomes introvertrd which Ive never seen him do. This is my chance to outgame him and I do I walk up to 6 women and make talk with them and social proof the room then he almost shuts down in the corner.
We go for a smoke outside where he chats up this couple for like an hour in the meantime I remember him talking about a girl at the bar he was infatuated with... so I open her in front of him lol. I get blown out but he didn't notice it. We go back inside and he talks to this bridesmaid and gets F***ing blown out hard. He is shook now so I approach 2 bridesmaids one is taken and another blows me out. This sh!t is a crazy ego destroying night so we bouce to the barracks (on post).
Inside he opens this really drunk girl then walks away so I invite her to his room since that's where the beers were :/ I do too much kino I try to talk sexual I get close I disqualify her but she's not responding. My seduction skills suck! Meanwhile he's getting into a comfort building routine the wholetime so I go take a piss when I come back she's sitting on his lap :/ I admit defeat tonight and go to my room. I have so much to learn its really demotivating, I just try too hard sometimes. I almost had him beat but this competition will be continued until next month.

To answer my own question from june 6th thr reason she didn't become "my girl" was because she feels she must not have earned that position. She doesn't want someone who doesn't have any real reasons if any to invest long term in her. Which would explain her lifestyle of all her FWBs, her wanting to sleep with me so badly she knows would put her in a position of lower status AND would give me a reason to want to be with her. Its sad but girls like this feel their best quality is sex. I found this out from thinking about what she said right after I asked her out which was 'y do u want to date me?' The answers I gave her were not congruent because there is no reasons to date her beyond sex. Also on our 2nd day I disqualified her a lot because I'm still learning seduction without use of alcohol. I'm thinking of a way to get her back Into my house again so I can give her what she wants (sex) then I can go for the relationship. I will take any comments on how to fix this...

As for tonight I'm setting something up where I can try my seduction skills on a different girl (old friend) that's visiting from florida... I'll keep this updated tonight.

She flaked I really wasn't expecting it either. Woman are such great liars going thru this game I'm realizing women are even worse than I thought. I'm seriously at a all time low she wasn't even that pretty to begin with. The girls next door that denied me a few days back is on top of the world I seen her again today and i feel like she conquered me I never want to feel like this again. Buy I'm going to play this game to the end I know what I am and I know I cannot be taken out this easily I want a challenge I want to fail I want to be seen and heard instead of quiet in the shadows so till the next post my friends keep sarging!

PM me Just forming a group, really just three of us who only known each other a few weeks but all committed. Couple new guys supposed to meet at Greatest Bar Fri night. Was there last weekend for a party and the hottest HBs in their 20s at one point on the 4th floor of bar there were more hot young girls there than total guys. Dont be chasing peasent stock and letting them boost their egos on your pain, PM dude wtf u doin?