If you are confused on why you are not getting women, read my entire post. What I wrote here, everything entirely is coming from my heart. I feel like I should be getting paid for writing this, but I am just doing for the joy of it and maybe it will help someone change their life. By the way this is coming from a very good looking man, good looks are not important, your mindset is! I am writing for you to understand this concept of what is important at meeting women. But now having the mindset AND good looks, is truly unbeatable combination.
In reality, it DOES not matter what you say to a woman IF it get's filtered through your sexy inner core. You can say "Hi, my name is James. I would like you to join me for a very boring cup of tea." If you do it in a sexy confident voice which ONLY inner core will give you. You will get her to meet up with you! INNER CORE SEXY CONFIDENCE CANNOT be FORCED to happen. Every man has it. It just flows out of you naturally when you have it. You cannot force it with your mind to turn it on. Either you have it, or you don't. The best part is that every man has it, it is just hidden down deep inside you, just like it was for me. YOU have to discover it! When you will discover it, everything will seem so easy for you, at getting women, and everything else. You will have a CALM SMILE on your face! The epiphany!
In my opinon the FIRST and MOST important requirement for everyone to have is to understand what your inner core is, what are you made up of. I am 25, very good looking, and not with a lot of dating experience. Many people think that I should have tons of girls, but that is not the case because I was shy and my innercore was hidden for many years, and I just discovered it. It is the best version of you, and you KNOW it, when it shows up. All these techniques are good and work ONLY if they get FILTERED through your inner core. If you don't have your inner core developed, these techniques that you read on these forums will not work. So down below are things that comes from my inner core mindset, when I am in a good state. This is my writing, and every line means something to me, it has association in my mind.
When I am not in a good mood, I read these lines, and it puts me back in a good mood. Now I just recently discovered my inner core, so gradually I am trying to live more frequently inside my inner core. For many, many years I did not do that. But now I am in it every day more often, and often, because it is just BEAUTIFULL! I think that in a short amount of time, I will be pretty much 100% imerssed in it. Small steps at a time, and you will get the results you want before you even realize it! I promise you that, just realize first that you have to develop your inner core first. Be comfortable with your body 100%, for many years, I used to think my body was good except let's say, my toe, or my but or whatever was't that good, that created in your mind that you are 99% good, but not good enough, and I believe that other people can sense that subconciously. You are truly sexy and attractive because, you can share 100% your body with other women no matter how it looks, as long as it is clean, and that just feels BEAUTIFULL!!!
If you are just starting out at trying to date women, think from a multiple girl perspective. Think that you have many options. It is hard to get the first woman, because your body language and mindset tells you that you have no women in your life and many women can feel that. That is why the first one is the hardest to get. Once you have the first one, your body language will change subconciously and whatever you do, you will attract A LOT more women, because now your body language vibrations will be correct because it is true that you have a woman already. And with each additional women that you meet and get, this will just amplify your body language vibrations and will make your even more irresistable.
Play dangerous game, don't be afraid to loose ANY women. Be sexy and dangerous, women love that.
Any women you meet, know that you are higher value than her, you don't have to justify why, just know it, and nothing can change that. Because YOU choose to think that way, and don't give a fuck what other people think, you WANT that, and it because a part your your STRONG REALITY. Even if this sounds irrational, so what? Fuck it, you don't need to be rational to have things in your personality that YOU want.
Create persepectives of the world around you, that YOU want. Don't look how others perceive world. Think of how YOU want to perceive world. When this works, other people get magnetically drawn into YOUR world. Have you ever noticed that some people make something ordinary so special? That happens because that ordinary thing gets filtered through other person strong reality, and it makes some kind of vibrations and it makes you feel their reality. If you want to be sexy and irresistable in your reality, you will because that person in the real world. For many years I did not know that I can do this, to create my own reality. For most of my life I just observed other people, and my self limits. But now I have realized that, you can create your own reality, and become whatever you want to be in it, with whatever qualities. This process in the beginning can be slow, but when it HITS you, oh man, it HITS you and it is beautifull!!!!!!!
If you enjoyed meeting a woman for 5 minutes, and she enjoyed it, then there should be no more beating around the bush, because she did enjoyed it, and will meet up with you again, without you have to try for anything. If she did not enjoyed it, then you will find other women who will. She probably did not enjoyed it because you were not your true self, your inner confidence vibrations did not shine through. If inner confidence is working, the way it's supposed to work, then majority of women will want to see you again.
Always respect yourself! Have the mindset, if she does not like my inner core, fuck her, and fuck any other women who does not like me. Don't be afraid to loose anyone, you should think like "I rather die, rather than to allow any woman to bend my perspective and my reality". The effect of that mindset is, you will have a stong sense of reality, and women will like that.
Relax, don't try to impress her!!! don't be afraid to say things, say what you want to say and don't be afraid to literrary loose her, that is sexy!!
remember your presence alone is a sexy & has a powerfull demeanor!!! that is if you let it be! deep breath, relax, be calm sexy, powerfull, powerfull voice, and think clear. it will work all out, pat yourself on the back!
don't try to show power, you already have it, she will feel it!
stop trying to create weird creative text messages, just be simple, direct, and call. since you already have the power, you don't need to create or show anything.
watch the female masturbation video before you go out, understand what they want subconciously, and you can provide them that, satisfaction!!! ahhh, let them know you can do that subconciously, but NEVER do it with words.
don't text her of what you would not say to her over the phone, develop comfort zone, and that starts out by simple talk. it is really not simple talk since it gets filtered through your inner core confidence, it gives you the power to alter that simple talk into something more.
you need to find a partner, a sexual partner, since it feels good!
no worries, I PROMISE myself to find a partner soon! you will do it, girls like you, it's just your texting bullshit and trying to go overtop that messes it up. and a lot of them are flakes anyways, not because of you but because of their own insecurities.
try to talk to more women every day, eventually to almost every woman that you see, this will gradually re-inforce anti-shyness
start living better lifestyle
experiment with your wardrobe style
accomplish a goal every day, at least the tiniest, this will move me towards massive success
most importantly, be a MAN, take care of your woman or future women!
be a man and take care of your body!
I don't need to impress anyone, the fact that I am a man, is good enough, smeel good, and be confident and with a touch of humor! that's charming!
true confidence! that left side look with a grin, that mysterious feeling, and happiness.. eminem no love song makes me feel that way, see that look into her face, those horny puppy eyes of hers!
there should be no DOUBT that she will want to meet up with you, since ONLY you can provide that dangerous fun feeling!!! let her want YOU!!!! that sexy grin!!! OMG!!!
everything that you do and say goes through your core, the confident sexy core, nobody can take that away, it creates a strong sense of reality, and other people feel the need to be drawn into it.
When everything else goes through your core, you can do whatever you want, silly things, dance, because everyhing will get filtered through the core and will come out with the right flavor. that is the ultimate true confidence.
MAN makes the clothes appear great, not the other way around!
inner core gives you strong voice, makes you feel like you don't need anything, you already have everything that makes you feel good, that sexy smile out of your mouth corner.
develop ways based on your inner core, on how to interact YOUR way with other people, like how to say HI, to a woman walking by, it could be something entirely brand new, with a strong sense of reality which the inner core provides you, you will sell that to the woman, and she will respond to your liking. now you can open an entire world of new possibilities on how to interact with other people YOUR way, not copy by looking at other people!! that will give you intergrity, develop your character, and you will be unique like noone else, and women find that irresistable!
if you have nothing to say, don't say it, in the context of like oh, now you have to say something iteresting, NO, you don't have to say anything if you don't want, when that happens just say something what a normal person would say, just a small chit chat like general questions, like Hi, and smile etc... since it will be coming from your inner core of you not needing anything, it will give an automatic flavor to your general talk, and that general talk because not only general, but with a flavor, general YOUR style, which automatically and ironically makes it interesting.
arouse her with whatever you do, create inside her SEXUAL attration towards you WITHOUT using words!!! whatever intereaction you have with her, should always come from your sexual demeanor! it is natural and normal to do that! the creation SHOULD not make you feel force to do that, it JUST happens, because it's YOU! it is your CORE!
If what I wrote helps anyone, just reply with a thank you! that's all I want is a thank you!
CHAT
