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Goldstar
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 Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 5:48 pm Post subject: My Little Phobia |
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Hey guys,
I'm Tomer from the other side of the world, Israel. Like every one in the seduction world im now stuck with my approach anxiety. I know that there is full of threads and tips for passing that thing but I have a really bad anxiety.
I read all this posts about "go out and do it" so homies, I did it! I went out to the mall and that it. I mean, I so many beauty girls but i was shaking, really. How can I approach to a beauty girl when im shaking?
Onetime.. i went to the mall and 2 girls asked me to take a photo with them.. so i agreed. then, like and idiot I said "goodbye". hour later, I saw them again. this time, while im shaking I asked them like this:
"A girl pal of mine has a birthday.. so, Im searching her a gift, Like I helped you, you should help me now".. they agreed and took me all around the mall. this was my last approach. i dont know why.. but Im shaking when Im approaching.
Please, say me you had the exact anxiety and tell how can I recover from it.
Thanks,
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Goldstar
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Oh, sorry.. i did a mistake about choosing the right forum... so tranfer the post =]
and I sorry about my terrible english.. I did my best. |
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snubby (aka Zen)
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You might want to look into Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to help you deal with this high level of anxiety. I used to be extremely shy, but never to the point of physically shaking. You also might want to try meditation, which I actually suggest to any budding PUA. It helps a great deal in many areas of your life, including learning how to just calm down.
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