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I think Mystery said it best: "Going bald is not a choice, being bald is."
True, but shaving is still just a method for concealing the balding pattern, just like other methods.
It's not like you are shaving because you necessarily LIKE being totally bald, it's because you find it the easiest or best method for concealing your hairloss.
Bottom line: you are concealing your hairloss because you don't have the self-confidence to look naturally balding. Nothing wrong with it, but in general there is no more "virtue" in shaving than hiding your hairloss in some other way.
Other concealing options:
-shaving hair short, especially on the sides (on top it can be a bit longer to counterbalance the lack of thickness)
-concealers like DermMatch (masking product) or Toppik (hair fibres)
-creative usage of styling products
-hair dyeing
-combover (definitely the one not to do.. At least not to overdo..

Combing slightly forward is OK I think, and many men do it in some degree.)
-hairpieces
-hair transplants
I've tried pretty much all of them in some degree, except hair transplants...