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NewYorkSpade
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 Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 6:58 am Post subject: My First Post "The Game" Attempt |
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Okay...
Just finished reading "The Game" and stated getting into the PUA community... Trying to shed off my AFC...
So maybe I can get some advice on where I did what right/wrong...
I met a girl this past Saturday at a fraternity formal.
Ended up getting very drunk, having a good time and got the HB8's number I was having a good time with.
So Monday after class I decided to give a call on the spur of the moment to get coffee or do something else local and simple. She explained she had some stuff to deal with and offered Tuesday night instead.
So that night I ended up going over to her place, and at her suggestion, with a 6 pack of beer. We chilled and drank, but we were sitting opposite of each other in her kitchen and thus impossible to get any good kino going.
At one point her younger sister and her date came back home and we all hung out in their kitchen... drinking beers and playing random games... After a while the two part ways and the sister goes to sleep leaving me with my HB8.
I continue to have a rather deep conversation with the HB8 (the 6 beers each and a few bowls of weed mighta had something to do with that). Now the night started at 9 and here it was just around 1:30; we talked about ending the night, I just needed some time to sober up before leaving.
So I was standing up and getting some water, when a certain song came over the radio, I remembered that me and the HB8 were having fun at the formal dancing. So I attempt to get her to stand up and dance with me but she declines on the thought that she was a bit too fucked up. No biggie i thought... I changed my body language... said something to the effect of "no big deal"... grabbing a glass off the table and turning away to walk to the sink to fill it.
I return not a half minute later and resume a normal conversation with her, still standing, drinking water. She says something about being stressed and her back killing her, (she previously mentioned to her sister about how good I was at rubbing her back during the formal), so I felt I should take the cue. I needed her to switch chairs if I were going to be able to give her a back rub, so I motioned for her to take the seat in front of me so I could rub her back. She hesitates and again declines saying "But... I'm a good girl..."... I think i cut her off with that by cracking a smile and saying "Ah well... your loss" with a smile. I then grabbed the now empty glass off the table and turned away to go put it into the sink. I heard her mumble to herself... "My loss?"... But I couldnt get enough of her inflection on the words to feel how she said it to herself... I then walk back to her and say that I believe I'm ready to go home.
I walk out of the kitchen with her following me and she is saying... "Hey listen, I'm sorry about the dancing thing and I'm sorry about the back massage thing...".. Now grabbing my jacket on the couch I look up at her and say "Don't worry about it." with a smile on my face that just seemed to come out. I take a moment to tuck in my button up shirt and she looks and says
"Hey... you are pretty built... I didnt notice that before"...
"Ya I was wearing a puffy vest when you met me, so you probably wouldn't have been able to see how big i was."
She then puts her arm around me for a hug and kiss on the cheek. I unintentionally had my left hand in my pocket and I only hugged her with my right arm. To which she says... "Hey.. Where's the other arm?"
So I'm now giving her a full hug and she presses into me and kisses my cheek then my neck. I'm able to turn it into light kissing for a minute before we stop and say goodbye.
So whaddya guys think? |
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Impact
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| Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 7:12 am Post subject: |
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Alright ill be harsh! but check this out
Ended up getting very drunk
Don't drink! if your gaming don't ever drink.
She explained she had some stuff to deal with and offered Tuesday night instead.
This is called a loop, she made you jump through it, putting her in control, you shouldve played harder to get been like, nah i dunno, ill check my shedule but this girl wanted me to go to her place (something along the lines of that). Ask her why tuesday? if shes the rewarding type? things like that, get her to play in your hoopes!
with a 6 pack of beer. We chilled and drank, but we were sitting opposite of each other in her kitchen and thus impossible to get any good kino going. You shouldve said, damn im cold, come here, or you go over there and say move over fatass, im joining you! always take your chance to get kino going.
her back killing her
Yeah she wanted a back rub alright, but you shouldve said, alright if you beat me in a thumb wrestle contest ill show you my secrete massage moves! but only if your lucky and beat me! otherwise you wont get it.
But... I'm a good girl...
"how boring, be a good girl and go get me a beer" cocky funny way.
I'm ready to go home.
Good! constraint.
Hey listen, I'm sorry about the dancing thing and I'm sorry about the back massage thing...".. Now grabbing my jacket on the couch I look up at her and say "Don't worry about it."
'Dont worry about it?" try nah girl my hearts broken now, how you gonna make it up *put yourself in a body language to leave*. <-
"Hey... you are pretty built... I didnt notice that before"...
Thats her IOI'ing you.
"Hey.. Where's the other arm?"
" youve only earned one, you gotta do something special to earn the other"
Play more man
Some thoughts
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NewYorkSpade
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| Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 2:18 am Post subject: |
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The drinking... Eh.
The changing of the day... I thought that maybe I was being put through a loop, but she seemed genuine about having to deal with some family shit the day previous. So I guess I'll give the benefit of the doubt that time.
I had a hard time trying to get kino in the kitchen. Really due to the way it was set up. 3 old school single person hard wood chairs. Unless I was gonna sit on a uncomfortable wooden armrest...
Making her earn the backrub in a silly/fun way... Good call... I'll member that one...
But I'll keep going with her for a bit...
I'm wondering at what point should I call her again. But I think its her turn to give me a call.
Thanks for the input man. |
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NewYorkSpade
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A little update with me and that chick...
I ended up talking to her Wednesday or Thursday of last week.
Tried to make plans for Friday but she suggested Saturday.
Saturday I was going to a party in Manhattan. So I let her know what the deal was and said maybe Sunday Afternoon we could do something.
So Friday I sent her a text of what I had in mind for Sunday... Just to chill out and watch one of my favorite movies... "The Red Violin"
She said she'd gimmie a call on Sunday.
Sunday she never called. I called at like 4pm before I was going to go out and forget about it, but I opted not to leave a message.
So if any, whats my next move?... |
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MindFucker
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| Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 6:12 pm Post subject: |
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never cheat on a girl. you're a pua not a pig  . i know, this is INTERESTING when you're just beginner and you want to take all the goods in one shot because situation is built like that. but, never ever do it again |
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NewYorkSpade
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| Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 9:40 pm Post subject: |
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I'm trying to figure out how you misunderstood me... Who said anything about cheating?
I'm talking about the same girl.
I said that I told her that I was going to a party... not out with another girl. |
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