Lost Natural
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 Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 1:04 am Post subject: My fellow seekers of wisdom: My introduction |
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Hi all
Iīm 28 years old, living in Denmark. I resently started reading "The Game" (havenīt even finished), and thought "I want this!"
About me:
I belive that Iīm a "Lost Natural". At some point my life just took the wrong turn. Untill I was around 10 years old i was a normal kid(maybe even ahead of my time), playing docter, lying on top and kissing girls, before my friends did. When I was ten, my parents got divorced and my life got turned upsidedown. I lived with my mom untill I had to get out, age 18. David DeAngelo said it, when he quoted some guy (donīt remember who) "Pussīified". I was "pussīified" for 8 years. (IMPORTANT YEARS!)
Since then I tryed to make up for my lack of social skills by working as a lifeguard, byngyjump-instructer and taking a tour as a soldier in Iraq. All without succes.
I lost my virgenity at age 18 (a disaster by the way). It wasnīt my doing. Iīm a good looking guy (that much i know) and it just happened.
Iīve been with some girls since then, but it was never my choice.
I always knew I was lacking something. But it was not longer than a year ago that I reached the "Do or Die"-point and got proffesional help. Iīve come a long way since and fast.
Fighting obligation-fobia: From livinī in two sportsbags to buying my own apartment, making it my home and paying bills.
Fighting social-fobia: From building walls and isolating myself to breaking them down and letting people back in my life.
And lotīs of other issiues.
Iīm finding the corious, happy and fun-lovinī 10 year old boy I used to be.
These are my goalīs:
1. Beeing the corious, happy and fun-lovinī 10 year old boy I used to be. (almost there)
2. My choice. What I want, when I want.
3. Touch people. (I donīt just mean i the physical way)
4. Stealing Christina Aguilera.
5. Stealing every rockstars girlfriend. (sorry)
6. Beeing the Best PUA ever.
7. Having a book written about my life.
8. Die having sex.
My Method:
The David DeAngelo-Cocky Comedy method. Mixed with mystery tricks and some Ross Jeffries NLP. But like Style Iīm open to all methods, always looking for improvement and in the the end finding my own way. Seeking solutions instead of problems.
My advantedge:
1. I want this for me.
2. Unlike the naturals I understand the value of working to get it.
3. The Bungyjump-mentality: The entrance, ground level (safe zone, 90%); Make the final decision, pay and enter. The strapping zone, still ground level (safe but new, 101%); Butterflies building. The basket, 30cm off ground (scared, 120%); Doubt moving to fear and beginning light adrenalin-rush. The top, 70m off ground (fear, 150%); What a view. 35 degrees, 70m off ground: Point of no return (terrified, 200%); Natural rush like no other, chemicals no drugdealer ever knew eksisted floating in your vains. Back on earth, feet on the ground and head above (exstatic, 199%); your reward, a natural high lasting 24 hours.
Point of "The Bungyjump-mentality": The final decision was already made at 90%.
My ethics:
Iīm a good guy and I wonīt change that. I want to touch people in a positive way. Take those who want with me on adventures and emotional rollercoasters. I want to be my best. I want to motivate, provoke and even manipulate others to be their best. All in with the best intensions.
Have a great game
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Infamous110
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Good intro. All it's really about is taking down those walls - most of which are put there by you.
I like the bungy analogy - I think that many people with phobias should do something extreme to feel the rush of overcoming said phobia.
As for not hurting people; i think that's fairly easy. Be honest. There may be some people that inevitably get hurt (maybe you sleep together and don't feel the same connection - could be various things), but if you've been honest from the get-go then it can only really be a short term hurt. |
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