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tronos
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 Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:05 pm Post subject: met through a friend.. |
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Introduced by a friend, we've met twice in groups.
In the second time, I think I over-kino-ed a bit when we were in the club, BUT I am very sure I didn't go overboard with it, no groping nor...slapping, lol. Just gentle yet firm gestures.
She didn't seem to be responding TOTALLY in kind and I could tell she was "distracted"- that is, not willing to give herself, BUT there were the usual tell-tale signs: Wider eyes, leans forward when talking, brushes her hair slowly.
Then I found out why- she has 'half her heart' with another guy back where she's from (we're from different countries) AND I was 'overbearing', so said the friend to me who introduced us. Also, she (her friend) said I was 'fun', and 'they'll call me out again', after the first group outing, which they did and led to the second outing.
Now she's leaving for a short vacation for some days, I guess this is a good buffer period to sit back and think, particularly with me hanging around here seeing what you PUAs gotta say about this.
Now, I'm willing to lose her just like a true PUA but it would be awesome if something sweet can come out of this. |
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chio
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Don't just focus on one girl. Keep practicing on other girls.
Using an ex boyfriend as an excuse for not being dirty is a sad excuse. If you come out appearing better than the ex then she wouldn't hesitate.
Get to know her. Find out what traits her ideal boyfriend would have and internalize them. |
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tronos
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yay, a reply!
No, it's not an EX.
It's a current crush/infatuation she has on with another guy. |
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chio
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| Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:42 pm Post subject: |
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| tronos wrote: | yay, a reply!
No, it's not an EX.
It's a current crush/infatuation she has on with another guy. |
Then find out EXACTLY who this guy is and become that guy. |
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