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nosferatu
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 Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:21 pm Post subject: met last night, want to hang today, too soon? when to call? |
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so i met this hb8 last night i actually enjoyed talking to. she was into me all night, eating up all my lines, jumping through all my hoops and we were constantly giving each other shit all night long. i was gaming her for a solid hour and a half and #closed when i should have *closed. anyways, i told her i'd call her and we'd meet up and hang out sometime soon and she was all about it.
today i have to go shopping for a wedding present for my friend and was thinking that would be a good day 2. and if that goes well, my friend is in a very popular band (DHV, friends in high places) and leaving for tour and tonight is is his last night in town so i would ask her if she wants to come hang out. would it be too soon to have her come hang out with my friends?
i felt like her and i got along very well and it would probably be ok, but wondering if i should work my way up to that with having her over for a movie or something during the week. thanks!! |
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vivalaking
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i wouldnt ask her to go with ya today, but i think you could drop a text and invite her to go with you the day after. something like
"hey! im going to a wedding this weekend(or whenever) and i need to pick up a gift tomorrow. help me pick something out!"
and then you can add something like
"there's ice cream involved"
usually that will seal the deal, because they think they are getting free ice cream out of it.
later, when she brings it up (she will bring it up) tell her if she buys lunch then you will buy her ice cream.
it works haha. good luck!
i dont see myself as a player, but i think being to the point and direct is important. so just make it simple and have fun with it. if that goes well, then set up the movie date at your place, since you will have built rapport and comfort already. |
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- Kaz -
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| Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 2:20 pm Post subject: |
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| No, dont wait, ask her out today, I think Day 2s you are meant to try get her to something that doesnt make her the object of the event, so yea shopping is perfect (women love shopping) or if you're doing this band thing tonight, try tell her where and when you're going and say she may enjoy the company, if she says no or is busy, remember your the prize, not her. Also I think call her in person, instead of sending a text. |
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willyrobinson
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| Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2008 10:45 pm Post subject: exceptions to the rule |
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As a rule just text her then so you don't come off too needy, but dammit man you sound like you have something good going on.
So my advice is txt her to get her to go with you (throw something enticing in there), but keep looking around - you might Pick up a different one inbetween time and you have a great opportunity. |
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