met girl in club. no closing. ok to contanct her online?

ssgillgian

Here's the short scoop. And need some opinion.

Was out the other night at a night club a was talking to the most adorable girl. She showed a couple IOI's but my lack of game and the group situation didn't allow me to get her digits.

However, trough our brief conversations, she gave more than enough info to be able to locate her though a site such as Face Book.. And I have. Now I don't know if I should contact her though the site, or would this just be creepy?

opinions are very welcome.

n.

Blues · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 6:58 pm Post subject:

I'm definitely leaning towards a "no" on this one -- if you did do this, it would have be a few weeks (or even months) down the line and you'd have to have a (believable) story of how you "accidentally" stumbled across her Facebook. Too much trouble imo. Looking her up is totally AFC and borderline creepy.

Instead, why don't you try focusing on your game so that this problem won't happen again? Very Happy

Chances are this girl is not one in a million, so if you didn't snag a number/other means of contact you should just shrug it off and learn from it.

ssgillgian · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 7:14 pm Post subject:

haha... my thoughts exactly... creepy is the word. Just had to suppress the part of my brain that was telling me otherwise.

thanks.

n.

trece · Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 1:47 am Post subject:

you want to and have nothing to lose, right? then do it.
"eh, havent we met in a club recently...?" next "thats creepy, how did you find me on facebook, are u stalking me???"

Dark Jedi · Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 7:16 am Post subject:

Dude

Add her, say hello.

She must have told you her name..

I fail to see what you could lose from adding her

Option one. She accepts request

Option two. She rejects request.

Either way. You win.

Stamper · Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 9:15 pm Post subject:

I feel like I have been in your shoes on more that one occasion...as for the follow up via facebook...is it a tad bit AFC? Well, maybe...will you likely see her ever again in person? Perhaps not...do you have anything to lose by contacting her? No...do you have a lot to gain if she responds positively to your msg? YES! So why not take a stab...

I think its important to come back at her with something clever / neg tho...

I read this on another thread but it sounded like a great one:
"hey...arent you the girl who eye molested me at the ____ bar last night!? naughty naught Wink

...(then make reference to a funny part of the convo that you had at the bar).....you know you have such a white smile?!"

Just an idea...
Stamp

djay · Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 12:30 am Post subject:

look up her groups, add yourself to the group, wait a few weeks, thats your story, way to early to do anything yet but as someone else said, u send a request she accepts or rejects either way nothing big but i'd w8 and use a line like i recognised u in a group we are both in...after u open of course but yeah i think early would be creepy

dutchseduction · Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 10:25 am Post subject:

Hey,

I did exactly the same thing a couple of weeks ago. I added a girl wich I met while sarging and her reaction was "thank god you find me!". That saturday i had a Kclose and the next tuesday a full close... So i don't think its a bad thing to do... I had succes so why wouldn't you!

Ciao

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