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Vedere
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 Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 1:41 pm Post subject: Meeting her in HER venue with HER friends |
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Hi all,
short, 3 days I go I started talking with this HB 9 at a club. I have big social proof at that club and I did a good game, I found out she liked me and I got her #.
Then yesterday I met her again at the club, she was with a girl and the boyfriend of that girl, and they bounced with me to this other club. I also have social proof in that club and didn't talk a lot to the target, but I knew she was into me. She had to go, kissed me goodbye and said that she really wanted to see me the day after ( so TONIGHT ).
AFterwards she texted me : "Tommorow is my last evening in your country so I really hope I will see you. Come to bar XXX with me and my 2 friends".
The problem is, I want to game and close this girl, but I don't think that I can get the right attraction at that bar where I never go and with those 2 friends I don't know. I have the impression it'd be weird. I got appreciation from the 2 obstacles, they seemed to like me, but I'd just feel akward sitting there in the early evening. I'd prefer OR going on a walk with her alone somehwere outside OR meeting her at the club OR something else.. Any ideas? I just don't feel comfortable sitting in a bar with those 3 people and I don't have any experience on that field.
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Monkey
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| Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 5:39 pm Post subject: |
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Get all of that crap out of your head right now. She wants to take you to a bar with two of her friends. She wants _you_ to come out with her, and she really hopes to see you before she leaves the fucking country.
You're so far out of attraction phase it hurts me to even see it referenced in your post. You're in comfort, and you're stalling there. She's bringing her friends to vet you, because that girl is going to sleep with you, and she wants to know her friends approve. So make her friends approve. Be funny, engaging, entertaining and fun. Show her friends you have value, make them like you, then take that girl back to your place and make your bed a mess of wet sheets.
You should get to the point where you're "at home" in any situation. You need more social proof, you go find some by talking to complete strangers. Just pick your ass up off the stool, announce you're going to go make some new friends, then go make some new friends. The group that you're going to the bar with contains heavy social proof and preselection; you should have no trouble getting into a set or three while you're there, giving you enough time and social proof to game the girl you're after. |
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