| i am NinjaMaster aka MAM aka DJ Cobra Kai aka The FANatic aka Saint Attraction aka Attracticus Maximus, known collectively with KDDR as The Wright Brothers of Attraction.
i grew up as a guy. as a result, i became horny. this caused me to seek out women.
i grew up like most guys, utterly pussified by Feminism, believing that women were more valuable than me. i did everything they told me to do to get them to like me. of couse this never worked in the end.
i wouldn't really call it a voluntary sacrifice. more like a ritual sacrifice of men. i just happened to be one of the sacrificial lambs among many. ie. i attended the school of hard knocks.
i didn't really become better by choice anymore than the Wright Brothers discovered flight by calculation; they saw a principle at work and simply went about unearthing it. becoming better with women was really a symptom of learning what constitutes social interaction as a whole. ie. i didn't sacrifice to become better with women.
1. life sacrificed me.
2. i paid attention.
3. i learned from what i observed.
when you put coal under heat and pressure, it either is crushed or becomes a diamond. same with people.
as a result, i happen to be better with women. but that wasn't the original intention. like most guys, when it came to women, i just learned by trial & error. mostly error.
if anything, coming across the traditional 'Pickup Community' has helped me to realize why guys are having so many problems creating attraction. the 'Community' isn't really teaching them how to exercise their manhood and become men (which is naturally attractive to women.) the Community is instead teaching men how to be pseudo-men; they are teaching guys how to lure women. but still under the old method of doing things according to how women want them done. this is a problematic attitude from the start. this assumes that women are more valuable than men. this mindset is a result of bad training. but PUAs teach that this is a result of evolution which makes the problem fundamentally unsolvable by PUA standards. the PU Community, in an effort to help men has unintentionally shot itself in the foot. now the more men come in contact with PU material, the more those same men have their current pussified mentality reinforced. the only difference is, they now have a few outer game gimmicks masking the real problem. guys are confused by the good short term results, but eventually disillusioned and dissatisfied by the long term prospect of continually striving to meet a woman's expectations while sacrificing their own.
eventually, you're right back where you started: NO MANHOOD. we aim to fix that.
just found this site. i will check it over later.
xoxo,
ninjamaster
i've created a frame control simulator ..but the mods think i'm trying to advertise for my site. i'm not as i even point out in my own site, it's not really a discussion forum.. it's a FREE RESOURCE FOR MEN, a library of social interaction knowledge. i'm not trying to steal members away from this discussion forum, because my forum isn't designed to be a discussion forum. and it's not designed to be a business .. i'm not selling DVDs or ebooks or any of that shit.
anyway, i put my website in my profile so if you would like to try out the Frame control simulator (aka a robot girl) , just click on my profile and you can check out the site, then go to the forum section and go to the "frame control testing area"..it's test #2.. she's fun to play with.
again, not here to steal members away. and not trying to promote my site. this is a chance for guys who don't know what the fuck they're doing to test themselves against a real girl.
xoxo,
NFM
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