| Good theory. Might have something to it. I personally feel that solid mirror shades make you feel like the person isn't paying any attention to you, so dependant on whether you care about them or not, you're gonna either eject, or fight for their attention. So that could be put to use as well. But, like I said, if feels like you're being tuned out.
I prefer the semi-mirrored ones, so that they can sorta seem my eyes. They know I'm watching them, but because they can only sorta see behind the shades they can't tell how closely, and they still feel like I'm kinda removed, so they will fight for the attention, but can tell if they are doing good or not.
A lot of it is gonna depend on how you run your game, just as with most peacocking items. I like to make them feel this deep connection and that we're equal (I don't like relationships where you don't respect the other person as much as you respect yourself), not make them just fight for my attention because I'm just so much better than them, so making them feel like I'm shutting them out and have to win them over is a bad thing.
Also, aside from negs about being silly, or cute, I don't want her worrying about the way she looks. I want her to feel like she's fucking hot as hell and needs to be fucked because she's so hot, but I want her to know that its because of me that she feels like this and that I'm the only one that is gonna make her feel that hot and can satisfy her. If she's worried that her hair is out of place, then she's gonna be thinking about that and not how hot she is and how much fun she's having. _________________ "The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch
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