| One great weapon against the loud music is to draw absurd amounts of attention to yourself. By this I do not mean "peackocking," at least not in the traditional sense.
The best way to peacock is to BRING A GROUP OF WOMEN WITH YOU. You will pick up more women, when you surround yourself with other women. This is a hard thing for most men, especially those in the pickup community. There are many reasons for this as well. The biggest reason of all is the reason why we are all here, because we target women to fill our need for emotional and sexual relationships.
Think of it this way. When men go out to sarge, they generally go out with other men, in order to find women. The women that to meet up or go out with them are their targets and "b" girls. They are there to fill the space and to make sure you at least are with a woman at the bar at some point. They bring the girl, who was met as a target, out to a loud club, and try to scoop up more numbers and closes, while putting the girl who tagged along on the back burner.
If you were that girl, would you want to hang out with that type of guy?
Here is my solution. Have platonic relationships with the most beautiful women you meet until you can sarge with them, and NOT WITH OTHER GUYS. Don't bring men out with you unless they bring other women. Adam Lyons follows this philosophy when sarging, and for good reason.
When you are out with beautiful women, all the cards are in your favor.
THIS IS WHAT IT DOES FOR YOU
When you walk into a bar with your car load of great looking women, all of the male attention goes towards your entourage. Men will buy the women drinks, and that will often mean free drinks for you as well. You also gain social credit with bartenders and door men, so once you make yourself known, more free drinks and no cover charge. It's a great life. But back to the male attention.
YOU WANT THIS! You are with many good looking women. All the men see them. Therefore they see you. You are no longer a threat to them. To them, you're the man, and since you're "taken" in their mind, you are not a threat to the women in their entourage. It gives you free reign on approaching any set. You've already disarmed the AMOG and the AFC, which in desperation is actually more likely to ruin things for you at the risk of ruining things for himself.
The women in the bar will notice all the male attention towards the women you're with, and will thus let down their bitch shield for you. Rather than feel bothered by an indirect approach, they will feel flattered that the guy who showed up with four hot babes went out of his way to give them a compliment.
Because you just picked up more women the cycle can continue.
AND ON THE DANCE FLOOR, you are at a high girl to guy ratio. If you go out with three other guys and a girl, you are taking turns dancing with her while other men in your posse stand around.
It's called a DANCE floor, not a STAND floor!
Being with the creepy guy in the corner is just as bad as being the creepy guy in the corner. It detracts from your social value. Replace those guys with women and you've got dance partners.
Stop objectifying every girl you meet, and have intimate friendships with them, and you will not only gain attraction from them, but every other girl at the bar.
Questions and comments appreciated. _________________ Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
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-Ders
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