ok, before I get into the meat of the subject, this I class as my first real nightgame outing as a lone wolf, I'd been out once before but picked the wrong night to hit the bars (Thursday) but used that outing to lay the ground work for future venues and build up rapport with bar staff which in turn helps DHV for future nights.
I went out after pulling a 12 hour shift at work so I made sure I was Hydrated and also had a red bull to perk me up before heading out.
Instead of writing a story about my whole evening I'll write bullet points of what I deem as useful information.
The long and short of the evening, I ended up in a night club and K-Closed/FB Closed a HB6, I give myself a nice pat on the back as this was my first time:
USE THE LONE WOLF DEFLECT "Friend cancelled at the last moment, I was dressed and ready to go out and said Screw it, I going out anyway"
Out clubbing in 10 years(married 9 years and now separated)
She was 12 years younger than me
She is a good 4-5 inches taller than me (I'm 5,7")
HEIGHT DIFFERENCE KISSING, dont stretch up to her as you feel like a man child trying to do this, get her to come to you or kiss her when she is sat on a chair or in a booth.
Didnt F-Close (had to get back to her kid, doesnt bother me as so do I)
Wanted me to come and F-Close tonight but I'm working/typing out this
1)CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!!!!!!! I cannot stress that enough, stood by the bar, quick scoping around at groups or good targets but overplayed in my head, trying to build up courage to take the 1st step, Just take the plunge.
2)Eye Contact!!! scoping round catching glances, hold their gaze and give a cheeky smile and they smile back then look away and talk to friends, then start looking at you (hey they could be making fun of you but I doubt it) and its a thrill knowing that girls are talking about you.(you know it and so do they)
3)There was the chance of running into a women from online dating, spotted a girl who looked liked her and was with a friend, I went up and chatted them up and made a few good laughs (but werent too hot and the night was very young) p.s it wasnt the girl but it gave me a confidence boost to approach.
4)With the HB, made eye contact while she was on the dance floor, held gaze and sexy smile
she smiled/blushed looking down/talked to friend, kinda pointing me out.
5) changed positions around a pillar so she would have to move to a different spot to get eyes on me, which I'm classing a IOI as I'm removing myself from her situation and making her move for me, which she did do and smiled more.
6) danced with her and her friends (Only dude on the dance floor) light kino escalation and grinding, went for a drink and held her gaze and just went for it and we kissed.... but pay attention to my next point...
7) Dont go all in for the kiss, like they say, play it cool and get her to lean into you and be first to end the kiss making her wanting more.
8)She is also open Bisexually as she told me as much and had her ex-gf/friend with her, pretty cute too, so who knows what will happen if I play the long game
I'll leave it there just now and will add more if I remember anything worthwhile and will answer any questions I can.